People say “parents know what’s best for their Autistic child” and then wonder why Autistic people get angry… it’s because we know how many Autistic people are killed, abused and neglected by family members.
Autistic peoples lives are not YOUR right to take away just because you believe that’s what’s best and think they’re are a burden.
This was a 3 year old child with his whole life ahead of him.
When parents continually yell at Autistic adults and tell us to stop speaking out about Autism and how we don’t speak for “all autistics”… I say we speak for the murdered, abused and the neglected Autistic people all round the world. They deserve a voice… and to be remembered
people NEED TO KNOW this is happening to Autistic people. People don’t want to believe this happens that Autistic people are murdered… but it happens. We need to make sure everyone knows so people can look out for signs of abuse or neglect of Autistic people.
If parents are supported by family/ friends more and help them fight to get the support and access to services they need it means it’s less stressful for them. They won’t feel alone or that they can’t cope. It’ll mean hopefully the number of Autistic people murdered will fall
So if you see this post today and read what I am writing and you know someone with Autistic children /teenagers/ adults… reach out to them. Offer support or a safe place to vent. Let them know you’re there for them and they aren’t alone.
Or if you are a parent to an Autistic child and struggling, reach out for support. It only takes a few minutes to search on Google for support in your area for parents of Autistic kids. Speak to someone, even if it’s a doctor, family or friend . Don’t struggle on your own
I know not all parents are the type who would harm their child but no parent in the right mind would murder/ harm their child. ANY parent can get to the point where they could harm their child if they aren’t coping.
No parent who’s done this thought they would kill their child
It doesn’t make it right or okay though. Murdering someone is a CHOICE. And there’s people to reach out to or organisations to seek help from. MURDER isn’t acceptable or an “act of love”
We are targeted by parents of Autistic kids, often because we can type, have friends, jobs, partners etc. It’s because their child’s Autism isn’t like ours they have added learning disabilities. So they become upset and frustrated and take it out on us! #actuallyautistic
They believe we shouldn’t have the same diagnosis as their child as we can do X, Y and Z and their child can’t. They don’t see Autism as a spectrum. They’re in their own little bubble of resentment, frustration and sadness.
Often it’s because they resent their child’s Autism and when they see Autistic adults who don’t have severe learning disabilities they become bitter, jealous and take all that resentment out on us.
(I’ve had 3 knee surgeries and will need a knee replacement eventually and I have Ehlers Danlos Syndrome and heart condition etc)
1. People say I don’t look Autistic.
People also say I don’t look sick or disabled. But it’s not something you can always actually physically see. You can’t see Autism just like you can’t see a lot of disabilities and physical health conditions.
I’m Autistic, I can drive a car, I have a boyfriend, I live by myself in a flat.
People would automatically assume that means I’m “high functioning” but there’s a lot behind the scenes that you don’t realise goes on. I have care workers in daily 3 times a day supporting me
I don’t understand how to sort car insurance out, I don’t understand bills and how to sort them out and need support. I forget to take my medications for my physical health so I have to be prompted to take them. I forget to eat and drink and need reminding.
I have meltdowns just like other Autistic people do, I head bang I rip my hair out, I sometimes rock back and forth, I hit myself in the head with my hands… but you don’t see that do you? As I often hold meltdowns in for when I get home and I’m by myself. It’s part of masking
Russian in Ukrainian military uniform! I knew it, I said all along that Russians are going to wear Ukrainian military uniform and attack civilians to make them distrust the Ukrainian army/also get civilians saying on video they were attacked by Ukrainian army when it was Russians
It’s how Russians get the propaganda on video of civilians talking about Ukrainian army or Azov shooting at them and attacking civilians. When it was actually Russians disguised as Ukrainians. There’s a lot of Russian Saboteurs at work. Honestly it’s disgusting.
I just want this war to stop. Russians have been killing women, children and the elderly and any civilians they want to kill. They’ve been raping CHILDREN and women, they’ve been STEALING and selling Ukrainian peoples property in Belarus or sending it back home to Russia.
Thread about Person First Language and why Identity First language makes more sense and is preferred by Autistic people. Also why a lot of Autistic people view person first language as offensive and harmful! #Autism#actuallyautistic#allautistics#autistic#AutismAcceptanceWeek
Person first language is language such as “person with autism”, “has autism”, “people with autism” etc is seen as ableist as it sees our Autism as something that needs separating from us and that you have to emphasise at the start that we are “people” first which is offensive
Autism has a huge influence on who we are as people it’s part of us, it cannot be separated from us. Our BRAINS are Autistic. Autism DOES define us in a way but THATS OKAY. It’s not all that we are though. We are not “with Autism” we ARE “Autistic”. Autistic isn’t a dirty word