Looking like someone else is easy, becoming someone else is much harder.
Change is hard because it requires to alter your core beliefs and approaches to life.
Doing that is hard, that's why most people never change, they just 'appear' different to the outside.
Change is hard because it requires to alter your core beliefs and approaches to life.
Doing that is hard, that's why most people never change, they just 'appear' different to the outside.
You're not happy with who you are, and you want to change.
What should you do?
1- figure out what you need to improve.
2- change the way you think about that area, view life through the lens of someone who possesses that 'change'
3- Get experience (negative)
What should you do?
1- figure out what you need to improve.
2- change the way you think about that area, view life through the lens of someone who possesses that 'change'
3- Get experience (negative)
1- Which qualities are you missing? Confidence? Discipline? Integrity? Tenacity?
All could be learned, but you need to figure out what.
The easiest way is to find a 'model', and see what qualities he has that you lack, but could really use.
Alphas from TV series can do the trick
All could be learned, but you need to figure out what.
The easiest way is to find a 'model', and see what qualities he has that you lack, but could really use.
Alphas from TV series can do the trick
2- Change of mindset is the key here, you don't just become more 'Confident', you need to think like a confident man does.
You copy the mindset of a confident man, you copy his thinking patterns and models of behavior.
You copy the mindset of a confident man, you copy his thinking patterns and models of behavior.
3- Acquire experience in the new zone.
That's the most important part.
You need experience (usually negative) to wire your brain in the way you want it.
Want to be a confident man? You do what confident men do, and you do that with the right mindset.
That's the most important part.
You need experience (usually negative) to wire your brain in the way you want it.
Want to be a confident man? You do what confident men do, and you do that with the right mindset.
Most say "Just fake it till you make it", which is a bullshit approach, it's just putting on a show, a mask of confidence.
This approach would only work once you have the correct mindset and you operate on the right frequency.
You use your experience to reinforce your beliefs.
This approach would only work once you have the correct mindset and you operate on the right frequency.
You use your experience to reinforce your beliefs.
Change your core beliefs and the way you view the world, and have your actions follow these beliefs, that's the only way to rewire your brain, and chart those uncharted territories in your life map.
