Thread by @ArmaniTalks

Be the person that can create conversation at hand.

Never be the dude that just sits there waiting for convo to be created.

You will be resented for your low social intelligence.

Create social opportunities rather than hoping to stumble into one

'Any idea why I wait for other people to create convo?'

Yes.

It's because you don't value your words.

'Any idea why I don't value my words?'

Yes.

It's because you don't value yourself.... 👇👇

The strength of your voice will be determined by your perception of you.

'Really?'

Yes.

Therefore communicating with others is a by product of building yourself up first.

You will always feel a level of doubt behind your words when you lack confidence.

Itll get so bad where you can't even fathom starting the convo.

'What if I can't maintain the convo?' you think.

Therefore, you go to social events & pretend to be all big & bad.

You want others to approach you because your ego has tricked you.

In order to mask your inadequacies, your ego makes you think:

'Hey being approached is what cool people do.'

And you will be approached in many occasions, sure.

But when that happens, you overthink.

You overthink so much that you have the other person do all the heavy lifting.

So not only are you making them approach you.

Now you are giving them the burden of creating a convo with someone who seems disinterested.

'But I'm not disinterested bro! I'm just nervous.'

Ya.

But the other party cannot tell.

Unless they have supreme social intelligence, they'll just think your a waste of their time.

'So how can I become a person who can create conversation at hand?'

You become a human of substance.

'And how do I do that?'

You level up.

Level up by:

1. Finding a mission.

2. Make today better than yesterday & tomorrow better than today.

With this 2 step formula, you will self improve over time.

Improving overtime will build your self image.

An enhanced self image builds value of yourself.

Increasing your value changes your energy levels.

Results?

Voice becomes more powerful.

Another beauty about leveling up is that your ego becomes tamed.

A tamed ego makes it MUCH easier to communicate with others.

'Why?'

Because a tamed ego helps you become a value provider vs. a value taker.

Most of your social anxiety comes because you think you're taking something from someone.

But when you KNOW you are a person of value who gives value on autopilot, the game changes.

You create convo with ease.

You create social opportunities.

You become interesting as fuck.

Remember.

You can't pour from an empty cup.

So pour water into your glass.

Pour more.

MORE.

MOORREE...

Excellent.

Now spilling over to the smaller cups around you is light work.

Get it?

Fix your internal world & the external world will bend to your will.

For the blueprint on how to level up, click below.

Greatness awaits.

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