Thread by @ArmaniTalks

Being lonely is mental.

Being alone is physical.

Use loneliness as an opportunity to become best friends with yourself.

When you do this, you are able to recondition your mindset.

You'll never be lonely again.

Simply alone.

The transition of 'lonely -> alone' will be a test of emotional intelligence.

Once you overcome this, you will feel more confident in the process.

Here's how you do that....

Loneliness is formed from your self-image.

Many people think it is indicative of the external world.

But that is not true.

It is indicative of your internal world.

You could be surrounded by a lot of people.

But if they are the wrong people, then you will continue to feel lonely.

'Why do I always hang out with the wrong people?'

Because you don't have a self-image.

You don't have a self-image because you haven't taken the time to work on it.

For your entire life, society, the school system & your social circle try to paint your self-image for you.

And you just blindly accept.

But this hurts you in the long run.

1. You are living someone else's life, not yours.

2. you overvalue the opinions of others.

A combination of these 2 will have you feeling lonely when you are by yourself or surrounded with people.

Life Law:

If you feel lonely, that means you need to be lonely.

Your internal world is trying to speak to you.

It is trying to get you to understand it.

Take 5 steps back.

Continue to feel lonely & understand who you really are.

Allow your internal world & conscious mind to slowly develop your TRUE self-image.

Piece by piece, you will gain clarity.

Your entire life, you were desperately seeking for the best friend.

But in reality...

You were meant to be your best friend all along.

Making this paradigm shift requires work.

Which is why most people don't do it.

Rather, they:

1. Go back to toxic people.
2. Hang out with a circle that is not right for them.
3. Whimper away.

But the winners?

They show EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE.

They fight thru the sea of emotional pain to make sense of it.

Their emotions are raw data that can be analyzed, dissected & learned from.

So they do exactly that.

Each level of understanding builds a stronger bond with their internal world.

Soon, a magical transformation begins to happen.

'What?'

They realize they were never lonely.

It was all an illusion.

They were simply alone.

The shift in mentality gives them the keys back to their life.

They now walk with self-assuredness & no longer need people.

Rather, they simply provide value from a state of abundance.

Checkmate.

Emotional intelligence is the most important topic that you were never taught.

The school system failed you.

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