Thread by @themultibeast

In my experience, most of "game" and "relationship coaching" is just reminding men and women of the age-old order that creates intimacy..

Men: Provide, protect, lead
Women: Nurture, nourish, support

Building sexual tension means doing the lead/follow dance a million diff ways.

The religious have it a little easier here because they each believe in a system that more or less corroborates this.

In these crazy times, the rest of us have a lot "in the way" of coming to terms with the fact that evolution has created the puzzle pieces to fit this way.

For a strong woman steeped in 2019's intersectional feminism it may be too much to believe that relaxing into her feminine, being softer, allowing herself to be "led", is actually what intimacy by making room for her man to be strong, safe, and sexy.

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Likewise for a man raised by women, encouraged by them to show lots of emotion, to reject the "man box", and to believe that the future is female, it may be a difficult "pill to swallow" realizing that this path leads to a lack of polarity since both parties are...

... inhabiting the feminine.

Game and relationship coaching are just reminders of how our biology works.

Religion, in this respect, are the written guidelines from our ancestors who discovered these evolutionary truths, and tried to warn future generations.

Thanks to @dovidfeldman @limitlessleila @Pat_Stedman and the rest of the "manosphere" for helping to facilitate this realization.

Without a time machine, best I can do is share this with my sons.