This is a reminder that this rhetoric is harmful.
But in short, repeating statements like that leads to sections of the community with #didosdd feel like they have to hit some benchmark of suffering to be valid.
These phrases can leave these systems feelings alienated or unheard, or can create internalized stigma.
Their life is not hell. To say life with #didosdd must always be hell is harmful, incorrect, and can leave systems feeling like happiness is out of reach.