I feel heard.
White people can be terrible hosts. They nickel and dime you for everything. It’s like they don’t know how to give of themselves without equating it to a transaction. They live transactionally and it’s sad bc they don’t know how to be a part of a community
White people can be terrible hosts. They nickel and dime you for everything. It’s like they don’t know how to give of themselves without equating it to a transaction. They live transactionally and it’s sad bc they don’t know how to be a part of a community
https://twitter.com/haychqueuedada/status/1480249714557739017
This spills over into every part of their lives: their relationships are transactional and therefore lack depth and true emotional support. And if you say something they don’t like they cut off communication because it’s a transaction that didn’t go through to them
How many times have you been to a BYOB party or dinner 🙋🏾♀️
First time I told my parents about BYOB they were like “if you can’t afford to have a party/treat your guests why are you having a party?”
It’s white nonsense.
First time I told my parents about BYOB they were like “if you can’t afford to have a party/treat your guests why are you having a party?”
It’s white nonsense.
I had a BBQ for some friends over the summer. Did I ask them for anything? No bc I wanted to celebrate them and our friendship. Did they bring stuff? Yes because my parents also said “never show up anywhere with your two long hands”
Also want to point out: why do y'all let your kids' friends call you by your first names? Like, they're not your peers...
I mean even I get jarred when I hear it
I mean even I get jarred when I hear it
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