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Two years ago my mum died in hospital from v rare #chemo complications Bcs of covid rules we hadnโt been able to see her during her 3 wk hospital stay apart from briefly in her last 48 hrs on compassionate grounds. We had just come out of the horrific winter20/1 wave
2/Of course I wanted to see my mum prior to that though initially the gravity of her symptoms werenโt known. I WANTED her to be on a ward with restricted visits & mask mandates bcs I appreciated she & other patients on the oncology ward were very vulnerableโฆ
3/seeing how hospital acquired infection of covid has now become such a big problem, it upsets me to think were my mum in this situation today, sheโd likely have got covid in the a&e she 1st attended & the other wards she was in prior to oncologyโฆ
4/The results of that would no doubt have been fatal & letโs be clear that it would have been a death frought with suffering & fear. For my mum to have been taken *early* in this way, when at the time we thought recovery was possible is hugely distressing. But this is happening
5/now hospitals announce no masks as something to celebrate. I see comments like Oh well, vulnerable people are about to pop off anyway (nope) so if death comes a bit sooner, so what, so be it. Does the sheer callousness of this notion not jump out at you?
6/I want to say to those people the what is that not all immune compromised ppl are at deaths door- but repeatedly, recklessly & unnecessarily exposing ppl to covid can result in severe complications. Even where ppl are in palliative care, to suggest itโs inevitable (&ok)
7/For covid to get to them, is not only wrong (we have tools to prevent exposure) itโs completely grim to suggest someone in their last stages/days of life should also have to contend with a covid infection and all the suffering & complications that inevitably will bring
8/To the if you donโt get covid here in hospital, youโll get it elsewhere brigade, no, no thatโs not the case, many vulnerable people are still shielding to avoid infection, thereโs very little choice about needing healthcare #Forgotten500k
9/Youโre disingenuously suggesting making life even more dangerous for vulnerable ppl is therefore justified- two wrongs donโt make a right. Levels of community transmission are too high- but they donโt have to be. Itโs not a given. #COVIDisAirborne there are ways to โฌ๏ธ risk
10/In terms of allowing more inpatients to become infected- in a health service we know is struggling to meet demand, how can it possibly make any sense to promote covid In hospitals? By not testing staff, by dropping mask requirements?
11/Not only will you ensure a constant number of staff absences due to covid illness, (& #LongCovid) surely covid increases the complexity &treatment for those pts already in hospital? Just think of how it would feel, to know youโre risking your life bcs, smiles not masks?
๐งตon being covid aware & cautious when the world says no to that. Iโm in a new minority in the UK as someone who hasnโt (knowingly) had a covid infection. Once I understood how contagious C19 was, I understood risks went beyond just me alone but was more about everyone else
2/ Then I considered it was a new unknown to medics & scientists. By Marchโ20 in the uk it was clear too little too late had been done, unprecedented levels of infection, it was traumatic to learn how many were dying everyday at an increasing rate. Definitely something to avoid.
3/ still I thought, what does it do to the people who survive it? Understandably focus remained on levels of mortality. Then I learnt that epidemiologists were very concerned not only about all the visible impacts but also about virus mutation.
Message from2019:Imagine a new deadly airborne virus swept across the world that without simple protection, would result in death & long term disability for millions. Imagine if powerful rich companies didnโt care, especially as
Affording the temporary protection meant disruption to cash flow. Would you believe it if I told you that the elite decide to dupe the population into thinking it was all a hoax, a bit like a cold, and normalised the idea that the most vulnerable werenโt worth saving,
That preventable death & disease wasnโt a thing? And that great chunks of society fell for it? That despite over 5 million deaths globally, mounting evidence of harm, vaccines, still the elite got their way? 2021 update: it happened
Slept badly woke early spooked with the โonly 6โ headline. I donโt meditate but like to start each day in my garden with a cuppa & birdwatching. Mum loved birdwatching too & we shared little anecdotes & updates. Little reminders like this, that your loved one is goneโฆ
is sad but still comforting. My youngest is whipping up cookies for my brothers birthday lunch tomorrow Iโm browsing mums recipes for inspiration Iโm the cook. Another sad/happy as mums birthday is a couple of days later & we usually got together for a posh meal out.
Not sure why Iโm posting this really, just reflecting on grief and how as a nation we seem to have become numb to the daily figures, cruel & thoughtless for those who covid DOES pose a life/death threat. Just reaching out to anyone mourning, or whose life is forever changed
๐งต1/5 #UKchildren ๐Iโve lost track the number of times this kind of โbutโฆโargument is used where (all ages) covid death figures are concerned- but they were old, but they had serious health problems, but they were obeseโฆ it feeds down the flow chart of u can ignore covid bโcos
..2/ at the results end of the flow chart we have personal choice trumps severe health risks, eugenics, getting told to f-off on SM when raising issues for CEV community, valid concerns dismissed as hysteria or anxiety, stay indoors & keep the hazmat suit on etc etcโฆ.
3/ the longer covid drags on thanks to these ignorant, hurtful,discriminatory takes, the gloomier the outlook gets, yet doom & gloom is what those wanting to suppress covid were accused of. Having #asthma, #chemotherapy#transplant pt, etc your risks are waaayyy higher