Thread by @akarestonia

A girl asked me: "What did you do to get out of horrible position in life you were in? I am still in it and I am trying to get out..."

I write out 10 mindset quotes I applied and she responds: "You're a bad person. You say it like you are better than me".

Blocked.

#motivation

1. Everything that happens in your life - Is your fault. Even, if you can't control it.

You could've prepared for the worst even when expecting the best.

#mindset

2. #Depression is not real.

3. Anything anyone says about you - Doesn't matter. Whatever it is and whoever it comes from - doesn't matter. Don't let anyone in your head. Only your inner voice matters.

Others opinions don't shape you. You shape others opinions by staying true to who you are through #action.

4. Stop victim mentality. Stop thinking you are a #victim. Nobody else is in fault for where you are.

Only you can shape your world.

#alpha

5. #Problems don't exist.

Only #opportunities and solutions for opportunities exist.

It's all about perception which decides how you react to anything.

#solution

6. You have to #change yourself. Not only habits. But #YOURSELF.

Only #discipline will help you re-arrange your habits. It can be habits of answering in a way, thinking in a way, reacting in a way.
All this has to change which starts with a habit of #accountability of your own.

7. You have to workout. It builds confidence. Confidence builds healthy mind and character.

So remember - Healthy body = Healthy mind.

#workout

8. Walk, talk and look like there is a camera crew filming you at all times even if noones looking.

Growth starts not when everybody is watching you - But when you are alone. Because then only YOU can hold yourself accountable.

9. Nobody is coming to help you. Nobody cares for you. Nobody cares for your #feelings. AND SHOULDN'T. You are alone in this. Only YOU have love and respect yourself, your surroundings and your FEELINGS unconditionally. Nobody owes you nothing, but yourself.

10. And for the last - When you ask #God to be strong - He will give you hardship, not #strength.

Important thing that helps you keep your head afloat if you remember it every time something doesn't go your way. Be grateful for the opportunity to even have the #opportunity.