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For the “transference” to “work” that means
- affective, non-conscious
- primitive, relational
- chaotic, unsafe
- distressing, unsettling
#feelings
Are “integrated” aka
- felt
- experienced
- mentalized
- embodied
- made conscious
- slowed down
Not with “thoughts”
- affective, non-conscious
- primitive, relational
- chaotic, unsafe
- distressing, unsettling
#feelings
Are “integrated” aka
- felt
- experienced
- mentalized
- embodied
- made conscious
- slowed down
Not with “thoughts”
For this to occur in a therapeutic dyad
some combination of all these instruments, in dynamic symphony
- differentiating
- joining
- asserting
- listening
- waiting
- speaking
all #embodied
some combination of all these instruments, in dynamic symphony
- differentiating
- joining
- asserting
- listening
- waiting
- speaking
all #embodied
#embodied projective dynamics are akin to fluid dynamics, or sometimes what is seen in gravitational fields
Quick primer
- diffuse
- rigid
- motile
- dense
Are examples of descriptors of #embodiment
Actually layers and layers of different qualities of your own embodiment
Quick primer
- diffuse
- rigid
- motile
- dense
Are examples of descriptors of #embodiment
Actually layers and layers of different qualities of your own embodiment
A girl asked me: "What did you do to get out of horrible position in life you were in? I am still in it and I am trying to get out..."
I write out 10 mindset quotes I applied and she responds: "You're a bad person. You say it like you are better than me".
Blocked.
#motivation
I write out 10 mindset quotes I applied and she responds: "You're a bad person. You say it like you are better than me".
Blocked.
#motivation
1. Everything that happens in your life - Is your fault. Even, if you can't control it.
You could've prepared for the worst even when expecting the best.
#mindset
You could've prepared for the worst even when expecting the best.
#mindset
2. #Depression is not real.
Cult recruitment: In order for ‘cults’ to be successful they rely on ‘recruiting’ others. They target ‘vulnerable’ isolated, alone, neglected children or adults. For vulnerable people, #cults are very tempting because the cult provides love-Bombing #stage1
A sense of safety, promises of rewards friends & actual rewards. Who could possibly refuse? They typically use becoming more joyful, happy, obtaining bliss as a #promise Who wouldn’t want that? A new family? #Acceptance? Love? It’s a nice loving supportive environment initially
7 Best #YouTube channels for #personal_improvement, #learning, & #Productivity🌠🌟✨
*With links*🔗
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*With links*🔗
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1️⃣Muchelleb
All about intentional living, self-companionate productivity, intentional living, #self_discovery and #self_love.
This is my all-time favorite YouTube channel! I’ve been a subscriber for 4 years🤩.
All about intentional living, self-companionate productivity, intentional living, #self_discovery and #self_love.
This is my all-time favorite YouTube channel! I’ve been a subscriber for 4 years🤩.
🎥Favorite video types:
1. Anything about self-love.
2. Life Admin days.
3. Anything about processing #feelings and #journaling.
- @muchelleb
1. Anything about self-love.
2. Life Admin days.
3. Anything about processing #feelings and #journaling.
- @muchelleb
Kaja Kallas on world largest/most-seen news-portal #Yahoo front page:
" Do not worry about Putins feelings,
Hes mature man, he can handle, but can You, West, handle the truth of The Past ?
Not going back to Future for now
but
The #Feelings:
#KajaKallas
" Do not worry about Putins feelings,
Hes mature man, he can handle, but can You, West, handle the truth of The Past ?
Not going back to Future for now
but
The #Feelings:
#KajaKallas
Too optimistic too early,
This was fallowed by that:
Massive amount near pro Russian articles.
Amount newer seen before on front page and fallowing pages, this is near full scroll of first 4 pages of news: in #yahoo #YahooNews
#KajaKallas #Putin #Russia #Eesti #uudised
This was fallowed by that:
Massive amount near pro Russian articles.
Amount newer seen before on front page and fallowing pages, this is near full scroll of first 4 pages of news: in #yahoo #YahooNews
#KajaKallas #Putin #Russia #Eesti #uudised
@kajakallas @IlvesToomas As we was telling before 2016 "trump" election from communists,
Small re-cap about the alien forces we dealing whit:
1:
versobooks.com/blogs/3577-the…
" forgotten wing of 1968: a particular reading of Lenin’s theory of revolution "
"victory of right-wing populism in America"
Small re-cap about the alien forces we dealing whit:
1:
versobooks.com/blogs/3577-the…
" forgotten wing of 1968: a particular reading of Lenin’s theory of revolution "
"victory of right-wing populism in America"
Are you an #empath or highly #sensitive #HSP like me? Good advice on how to make your empathetic state a positive in life when often we feel pressure to “not be so sensitive”. Embrace your empathy and make sensitivity a super strength - Psychologies UK apple.news/Ahd82EI2ETyeRf…
I don’t often speak about myself as an #empath. I know people wonder how I pick up someone else’s thoughts, feelings, next actions. I just usually say I’m good at strategising or “just put the signs together”.
But being #empathetic #HSP takes a toll. It’s stressful picking up and carrying other peoples #feelings and #moods. And being #sensitive is often not seen as a positive trait in our society. So I used to try and hide it.
#Narcissism thread 🧵 15 (more) questions to ask yourself if you are questioning whether someone is a #narcissist
1. Do they devalue, diminish, demonise or harshly judge you or act as the righteous ‘authority’ figure with you regardless of their age, status or employment? 🚩
1. Do they devalue, diminish, demonise or harshly judge you or act as the righteous ‘authority’ figure with you regardless of their age, status or employment? 🚩
Are they #superior? For e.g. A non lawyer preaching to a lawyer about law. 2. Are they #defensive? Do they seem only interested in trying to prove that they are right & you are wrong, in a defensive mode? 🚩They are #competitive not co-operative. Co-operation is a must #healthy
3. Do they demand #attention from you? For e.g., insisting on having the conversation when it’s convenient for them only &/or use emotional #manipulation to ensure conversation happens on ‘their’ terms? They may not answer the question, go off topic, deflect, defensive, accuse 🚩
The Toxic #Narcissist Cycle of Abuse: 5 Stages Thread
Stage 1:
Love Bombing & Lying:
Your #abuser lies to you from the start, convincing them-self/selves & YOU that you are liked, included, adored, loved & respected. Your #boundaries are respected & you are overly welcomed
Stage 1:
Love Bombing & Lying:
Your #abuser lies to you from the start, convincing them-self/selves & YOU that you are liked, included, adored, loved & respected. Your #boundaries are respected & you are overly welcomed
🧵One of the tools we use at FLC is 'The Thinking Environment'
"The most valuable thing we can offer each other is the framework in which to think for ourselves"
#NancyKline
The #10Components that help generate independent thinking
👇🏾1/10 a short intro on each #MedTwitter
"The most valuable thing we can offer each other is the framework in which to think for ourselves"
#NancyKline
The #10Components that help generate independent thinking
👇🏾1/10 a short intro on each #MedTwitter
1 ATTENTION
"The quality of your attention determines the quality of other people's thinking "
#NancyKline
#timetothink #thethinkingenvironment #coaching #MedTwitter #importantconversations
"The quality of your attention determines the quality of other people's thinking "
#NancyKline
#timetothink #thethinkingenvironment #coaching #MedTwitter #importantconversations
2 EQUALITY
"Even in a hierarchy people can be equal as thinkers" - #NancyKline
#timetothink #thethinkingenvironment #MedTwitter #importantconversations #FrontlineCommunication #HealthcareEducation #communicationskills
"Even in a hierarchy people can be equal as thinkers" - #NancyKline
#timetothink #thethinkingenvironment #MedTwitter #importantconversations #FrontlineCommunication #HealthcareEducation #communicationskills
enCOMPASSion wishes you a very happy #FriendshipDay! #Tag a #Friend on this #thread to #celebrate your #friendship today...!
First of all, we make an #Observation.
#FriendshipDay #NVC #NonviolentCommunication #TagaFriend #celebrate #friendship
#FriendshipDay #NVC #NonviolentCommunication #TagaFriend #celebrate #friendship
Then, we express our #Feelings.
#FriendshipDay #NVC #NonviolentCommunication #TagaFriend #celebrate #friendship
#FriendshipDay #NVC #NonviolentCommunication #TagaFriend #celebrate #friendship
I know it's gotten fashionable to #blame others for our #emotions because self #responsibility is difficult and people have been taught to avoid what is difficult.
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But self #responsibility is EXACTLY the perfect level of #difficult because it's an equal opportunity difficulty; none of us are without flaws or errors or #mistakes and we've ALL been wronged (on some level) by something.
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Self responsibility is SO important, that the 12 Steps (of #AlcoholicsAnonymous, #NarcoticsAnonymous, #AlAnon, #Codependent recovery, etc.) is BASED on it.
To be sober, for example, I had/have to take responsibility for the parts of my life that I was/am responsible for.
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To be sober, for example, I had/have to take responsibility for the parts of my life that I was/am responsible for.
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1/n The foundation of #सामाजिकन्याय is based on the urge to treat all human beings as equal. #Tweet4Bharat
Img src : vocal
Img src : vocal
2/n The Nyāya Sūtras of Gotama focusing on knowledge and logic devided in five books.
1 - 16 categories of..
2 - Means & Object of..
3 - Intellect or Nature of..
4 - Rise of true..
5 - Balancing of Knowledge
bit.ly/1OFxVcc
#Tweet4Bharat
1 - 16 categories of..
2 - Means & Object of..
3 - Intellect or Nature of..
4 - Rise of true..
5 - Balancing of Knowledge
bit.ly/1OFxVcc
#Tweet4Bharat
3/n #SocialJustics is to minimize #Rising #inequalities among people's #Income, #Assets, #OpportunitiesForWork, #AccessToKnowledge, #HealthService.
#SDG
#Tweet4Bharat
#SDG
#Tweet4Bharat
We're live with our 2nd #TeLeadershipBookClub! We're talking about @BreneBrown #DaretoLead - join us here: bit.ly/tlbc-dare
@BreneBrown @BreneBrown has so many articulated ways to become a better #leader and so many of them fly in the face of the traditional characteristics of #Leadership
@BreneBrown Being authentically #vulnerable rather than demonstrating #fakevulnerability - #daretolead shows us how to have the courage to show up even when you can't control the outcome!
#Neuroscientists worldwide are increasingly studying #myelin and its amazing impact on rapid #learning, mastery, and neuroplasticity. So keep your circuits strong with deep, focused practice, but remember: #myelination requires quality versus quantity.
What Is #Myelination?
Myelination is the process of “insulating” a new neural pathway to strengthen it and to forge new default #behaviors. Heavily myelinated neural pathways are up to 300 times faster.
Myelination is the process of “insulating” a new neural pathway to strengthen it and to forge new default #behaviors. Heavily myelinated neural pathways are up to 300 times faster.
They’ve been optimized for speed and #efficiency. Increasing #myelination via intentional #practice helps us become more emotionally agile.
#OSHO
The #mind is a #coward, for those who listen to it become utterly cowardly. The mind is not an #adventurer, it is very #cautious. It takes every step with #thinking and #calculation until it is #certain that there is no #risk.
The #mind is a #coward, for those who listen to it become utterly cowardly. The mind is not an #adventurer, it is very #cautious. It takes every step with #thinking and #calculation until it is #certain that there is no #risk.
Boppin about this evening & ran across this #article
Are you #Emotionally #Repressed?
harleytherapy.co.uk/counselling/em…
How do the kids say it nowadays? I feel #calledout?
I've gotten much better,but i can still recall a time when I thought the epitome of feeling good, was feeling nothing
Are you #Emotionally #Repressed?
harleytherapy.co.uk/counselling/em…
How do the kids say it nowadays? I feel #calledout?
I've gotten much better,but i can still recall a time when I thought the epitome of feeling good, was feeling nothing
Seriously, if you're #reading down the #list going, "That's me, that's me, that's me, and oooooo is that EVER me!"
I'd definitely #recommend getting some #help with the matter.
It's taken years to be #comfortable in my own skin.
Years of breaking the old records in my head
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I'd definitely #recommend getting some #help with the matter.
It's taken years to be #comfortable in my own skin.
Years of breaking the old records in my head
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-And as #Ralph would say, Totally worth it!
It's a freakin #relief, to cry a tiny bit in a #movie theatre at a moving point in the film, without having to expend all the extra #energy in "did someone see me?"
#exhausting!
and that's just one tiny perk :)
I #lookforward to-
It's a freakin #relief, to cry a tiny bit in a #movie theatre at a moving point in the film, without having to expend all the extra #energy in "did someone see me?"
#exhausting!
and that's just one tiny perk :)
I #lookforward to-
I got to explain #GayPanic and #UselessLesbian to my pysch today 😂
These are terms I just learned (over the last few months myself) that described succinctly, what the heck is going on with my brain.
To unpack these terms, I'm going to start you with Sappho.
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These are terms I just learned (over the last few months myself) that described succinctly, what the heck is going on with my brain.
To unpack these terms, I'm going to start you with Sappho.
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“Sweet mother, I cannot weave –
slender Aphrodite has overcome me
with longing for a girl.” –Sappho
To everyone, we've almost all been in this feeling. (i cannot speak for Ace)
Someone we see or meet, and their presence just #dazzles us into #malfunction (however brief)
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“Sweet mother, I cannot weave –
slender Aphrodite has overcome me
with longing for a girl.” –Sappho
To everyone, we've almost all been in this feeling. (i cannot speak for Ace)
Someone we see or meet, and their presence just #dazzles us into #malfunction (however brief)
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A Thread for Men: When your #woman is #emotional, #crying or #stressed out, do not hold it against her. One of the lies of #feminism is that men and women are the same, including that we should process #emotions the same way. Reject the lie. Listen and learn in the posts below.
#Women have much greater #hormonal fluctuations each month than #men do. Simply put, a woman's thought life and #emotions are more prone to high highs, and low lows. This isn't a "design flaw" but rather how #God made a #woman to be in touch with the needs of small #children.
Nothing is more short-sighted as a #man than viewing a #woman as an "overly emotional" or "flawed" version of a man's thought process or #emotions. A woman that does not let her emotions out will become very #passiveaggressive, #depressed or #angry. Your job is to be an #outlet.
