Some upside to strong vision 👍, sad it favors the assertive 😕.
How can we do better? 👇
∙ summarize different points of view out loud
∙ ask quiet attendees to chime in
∙ avoid a handful of people going back-and-forth
∙ go to a social event together, discuss the next day
∙ insist that we assume good faith
∙ state which "hat" you're wearing when expressing a POV
∙ take a vote, ask dissenters what would increase consensus
∙ only revisit prior decisions if new information comes in
∙ summarize prior discussions
∙ record all discussion and decisions
∙ come prepared
∙ write down rules, agree on them, stick to them
∙ recognize unimportant bikeshed, ask if others agree
∙ stick to the topic, write down and delay side-topics
∙ time box, punt if over
∙ ask other standards / open-source projects what they do
🙇♂️ What do you do? 🤔