people want to be in a place that they personally (alongside their friends) can exert effort to make better, even if only in small ways
we need shared virtual spaces that we can take care of as a way of taking care of each other
y’know how people are always posting hot takes on here? it’s bc we have a psychological need for *mutual presence* with other people & if you’re not posting stuff there’s no way for others to acknowledge your existence
gardening, decorating etc (when implemented correctly) are activities of this type at which you also can’t meaningfully fail