Thread by @arkinsquare

I said your hurt was designed and you did not believe me. I didn't believe it myself. How can someone plan my hurt until it was executed.

People like me hate to hurt people and that is why we apologize everytime someone is displeased with us.

Hurt is hurt. You can not deny hurt when you are hurt. It is either you are hurt or not.
However, I state here today that no one is free from hurt. No one is immune against hurt.
#Audacious

You cannot be hurt and not know it. You cannot pretend you are hurt when you are not, your disposition will give you away.
Hurt is a deep cut on our emotions.

The dictionary define hurt as; to  cause emotional pain or anguish.

This cannot be peripheral
#Audacious

Why do we hurt?

My simple answer to this is, "we always expect too much from the other person", this always open us up to hurt.

You thought he should know better, hello... He doesn't know any better.
#Audacious

You never believe she will say that about you. Excuse me, you placed her too highly.

We will continue to get hurt when we put people on a height in our heart and they fall short.

Guess what, we will always fall short, we are only human. #Audacious

Think of it this way, there are people you are hurting also whether you know it or not. As humans, our relationship with each other makes us vulnerable and this vulnerability will always bring about hurt.

Just accept that hurt will always come your way #Audacious

Now that we have established that being hurt is part of our existence, let me then state that hurt brings about growth. That hurting experience teaches you something you won't forget easily.
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Your hurt was designed... How?

There was this young man who found a beautiful lady and became fond of her, they were both doing well in their careers. They liked each other so much any it wasn't too long for neighbors to begin to call them couple because they were an item

They are always in each other's company.
3 months after they met, the guy proposed marriage and she said YES. Everyone is waiting for the date and just about the time for them to pick a date, the lady was transferred to USA office from Nigeria to do a course for a month

a month turned into months and into years. The brother back home couldn't go meet her and the relationship that was going on well began to go sour. Eventually, she got married in the US to another man and informed the brother back home to do same. #Audacious

The brother at home was devastated, almost going senile, he was worst hit. People back home tried to encourage him to forget it and move on, but they don't know how much it hurt.

After months of sorrow, he picked himself up and got the hold of life again.
#Audacious

He met another lady, they love each other and got married. Thereafter, doors began to open up to him, he got seamless access to greatness, he build businesses and oversaw projects.
The lady in US had a divorce afterwards, returned to Nigeria and had to begin again #Audacious

The brother that was hurt so thank God that he went through that hurt that made him meet his wife, he says this woman has brought everything into his life.
The hurt was designed, the hurt was part of the story.

#Audacious

I have seen so many initial hurt that turned out to be a springboard for future greatness.

We always do not understand what the hurt was meant for in the beginning, but when everything play out completely, we get the scope and appreciate the hurt the more. #Audacious

In a nutshell, your hurt was designed, let it play out, be positive about the process because every process always bring about a product.
Your product is coming.

#Audacious... For your peak performance daily

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