Methods to exclude, ostracize, label as “out group”
are hallmarks of bullying
which we know is too prevalent in medicine and education
Not everyone who uses term “professionalism” intends to/is a bully but many of us are complicit
It JUST clicked for me with this from @NatsforDocs on #impostersyndrome why “#professionalism” term is so able to activate shame to psychologically activate “I don’t belong” and “I’ll be excluded” - that too when to get into med school was constant anxiety-driven overachievement
There is a very pragmatic and important aspect to group belonging especially in high acuity or high risk settings. The same is true in #military settings too. “Who has your back”? This is necessary for patient safety. Really robust exchange with on #professionalism
But these “tight” groups - medicine/surgery or military - that rely on trust, also can be unwilling to “report” cuz it seems like betrayal, risk of ostracization.
This has been my repeated barrier to cultural change to #safetyculture.
Need systems thinking. Individual heroism is what society loves stories of and often expects from leaders.
The quiet, invisible, unglamorous work of system design is what makes us safe, effective, consistent. We see that with #COVID19#pandemic or #vaccine rollout.
#Quality & #safety came from surgery world (not to ding all surgeons)
Some time ago a doc from a surgical background shared an article calling preventative health/vaccines “coercive” 😱
Prevention = systems, not heroism
Dear #MedTwitter please, please, if you are a licensed medical professional and/or in school to be, do NOT delete your tweets or comply with anyone telling you to do so. It will harm you far more than leaving them up and explaining. Nothing is ever deleted. Can be used in court.
When I was at Harvard Med School and at an esteemed children's hospital, a case against an esteemed professor, that NO lawyer would touch cuz this was someone who had WRITTEN the textbooks and trained every expert, was won ..based on "a document was deleted" - creating suspicion
"Sunlight is the best disinfectant" you will hear me say OVER and OVER - wins & losses *should* be on data/standards but unfortunately wins & losses are in the court of public opinion. So be reliable, credible, and trustworthy. Transparency is one way to achieve that reputation.
There is SO much shame in various cultures: healthcare (medicine, nursing), religion (Catholic, Muslim, Jewish), political (conservative or progressive/woke).
People who say “shame on you” are revealing they’ll a lot about selves.
It is the lazy person’s way to express themselves in interpersonal interactions IMHO because most of us had shame instilled in us by culture, religion, family, education. It is why so many have #impostersyndrome which is really is about ego, not ethics or getting 💩 done.
I just found the bachata channel on TikTok. Guyses, this may be a hole from which I never emerge from. Also I know my go to Latin dance club is open. I will wait until it is safe. TikTok bachata channel it is.
Like wow... you can do that even when super preggers? Holy cannoli. That is another level. (Is she post dates & trying to induce labor?)
I once, in salsa, elbowed somebody in the nose. He was a super good sport about it. But you know they teach you to go for the nose in self defense. He was in PAIN. So now I keep everything tucked in to avoid accidents.
“The events of recent months relating to COVID-19 ..have brought increased attention to the digital divide...an economy that runs on the assumption that individuals have full access to traditional banking”
“the unbanked and underbanked ..less education or to be in a racial or ethnic minority group, according to the Fed data. Put all of these characteristics together.. those who are unbanked and underbanked... who may have historically felt shut out of traditional banking”
Personally, as someone Muslim, what I was taught about my purpose on this earth is the every single thing I “have” is only loaned to me and nothing I am entitled to.
You have to pay interest on loans.
More you have, more you must give (back).
Of course I face barriers too.
I don’t talk about religion a lot. I am deeply spiritual. I do believe Islam is “a way of life.”
I am less worried about reciting the exact right dua/prayer when stepping in a room with the correct foot.
Hadith can be disputed but this one is beautiful. Mercy matters most.
I should just disable the news notifications. I have no need to know about homicides being up. And yes, I am, aware, domestic violence is a big killer. People home with their “loved ones” = danger, maybe death.
Again, I prefer pumas to humans many a day.
Conservatives try to fear monger & tell you it is some “other” (typically another race) who is the murderer & rapist.
Nope, danger is greatest from those you trust the most with access. Pediatricians know this. americanbar.org/groups/public_…
I have become extremely discerning regarding abuses of power particularly in faculty given this long history that is extensive across multiple elite boarding schools where reputation mattered more than protecting children including my own boarding school. I had no idea of it then