Both these cases and others from institutions where I have been educated or trained hit close to home.

I had become a fan of Cuomo when in NYC

There *is* racism & implicit bias

while there *does* need to be accountability & due process on sexual harassment regardless of race
When we always report, encourage reporting & consistently invoke due process within the system, we can create a safe system that counters bias. It should not be about who went to med school with whom, race, gender, age. It should not be about vigilante justice outside the system
A woman leader can experience gender bias yet also align with patriarchal structures that tend to silence female victims. Both can be true at the same time. A Black man can be harassed or overpoliced based on race in one domain and be correctly identified as a harasser in another
That is what makes it complicated. There are not people who are only victim or only abuser. There are not “good” or “bad” people rather actions that happen at specific times by specific individuals. Those who see selves as saviors or mascots can become entitled, full of hubris.
In politics, communication, leadership, etc this comes up over and over. Do we hold people accountable who are useful to an agenda, may share certain goals, may have done some good things?

nytimes.com/2017/11/16/us/…
I’ve had very mixed feelings about my own alma mater once this came out

It is the school that shaped me into the woman, the advocate, the social justice warrior I am, yet..

..I had felt safe there
But not all were safe
Some abused then made to disappear

timesunion.com/local/article/…
Gillibrand, an alum of my high school, who led the charge vs Franken to resign, has been criticized for not being as intense now. But she is clear here. This is where it gets murky. Who decides when “tone” is “enough” beyond supporting due process?

thehill.com/homenews/senat…
I’ve been criticized repeatedly in different contexts, for having too low a bar for reporting.

Told I should look away, let it go, stay silent.

But that is the thing, we need more, not less, reporting for #safety, less biased gatekeeping.

weeklysafety.com/blog/incident-…
Women & minorities who are the most successful, (frankly even cis, straight white men), either are part of this culture or align with it

Strip clips, groping, sexism, homophobia, racism, you name it - silence

Staying silent when an ethical head rolls

bizjournals.com/bizwomen/news/…
Nurses can be bullied by doctors and administrators, burnt out, and harassed or undervalued while also having own bullying culture.

And when held accountable, the label of “the oppressed” can be invoked rather than consistent standards across identities

ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/P…
My reporting this data entry error on behalf of a black family was seen as overly punitive. Except when I was a patient, a near miss potentially fatal med error could have killed me. The resident caught the error but did not report. So then no QI data.

go.beckershospitalreview.com/scott-becker-i…
Incident reporting of any kind of safety is necessary to #quality #safety in #healthcare

pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23335058/
So don’t be judge & jury or gatekeeper yourself
If see something unsafe, invalid, inaccurate, biased, bullying, harassing..

..report it

Have low bar to report
Don’t tell others it is never worth it
Change culture of silence & silencing

Increase reporting
Let committee handle
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21 Mar
This is beautiful. The masjid/Islamic center of Colorado served the neighborhood, reducing barriers for all, regardless of faith.
The U.S. government is responsible for the this vaccine hesitancy from these past ethics violations that abused the hard work of humanity public health workers who had painstakingly gained trust over years. Trust takes time to rebuild.

npr.org/sections/thetw…
That’s why I’ve been working with various Muslim groups to spread factual, trustworthy information to communities on #COVID19, #VaccinesWork

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21 Mar
@rezaaslan Honestly, we are past a point of thinking all brown is the same. There is tremendous diversity in South Asia.

The accent. The way of talking. The head movements. None of it is remotely Afghan. There was a way to actually represent Afghan or Pathan culture beyond casting.
@rezaaslan Asking the people whose identity is being used to either play the part or at least inform the character development is essential to moving past caricatures to representation.

As for brown savior: Mammies often “saved” their mistresses/masters.

harpersbazaar.com/culture/film-t…
@rezaaslan Key part of the article on way Mammies are portrayed.

I’d like to see how this sitcom would be different.

I get the argument that it is important to get sympathetic/likable Muslim characters on the screen. Maybe this is the extent of progress possible.
But was it? Image
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20 Mar
Am grateful my #endometriosis and #fibroids only affects me severely one day a cycle and is not severe every cycle. Still that one day can make me unable to get out of bed or sit up without passing out. Severity worsens with stress.

Today I feel have my life back. Thank God.
Mind you, my definition of severe is “I pass out from pain.” I don’t know if it is really a good thing I self suppress so well that I don’t even feel or react to pain until it threatens my ability to stay conscious. I don’t glamorize “grit” that is a lack of self compassion
It is an accommodation to the pathology in the world we live that was apparent with the events this week. 6 Asian women killed but the compassion was for the killer who “had a bad day” by authorities while the women were mislabeled as sex workers to validate their deaths.
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18 Mar
Sometimes you need a physician-child to physician-child call. “I hope you know none of this is your fault.”

Thankfully I have been really effective at not going down dark paths of coulda shoulda woulda.

I helped Daddy stay in right frame of mind.

We live in shaming society.
Still, it meant a lot that someone I went to school with called with that, likely sharing what he knows from loss of a parent as well.

The people who have lost a parent get it.

I can see why there are grief circles.

Some people get it.
People outside of clinical medicine (or even in it) also can assume doctors have unending power, privilege, access.

One auntie “with your girls as daughters I assumed she had the best of everything.” She likely did not hear what she said to a grieving daughter. Implies failure.
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18 Mar
My mother’s aunt just passed away. That was the last of the old guard. Please pray for her soul.
Thank you for the condolences.

Without going into too many details, we had always lived in different countries and I knew of her more than knew her.

There is an awareness of loss because South Asian and Muslim women do not often tell their stories.
I am disrupting (yet again) with all my social media posting because it goes against so many cultural and family values.

So many ppl have asked me when I will publish a book, novel. I can’t tell “my” stories without affecting others.

And no, that is not always oppression.
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On reading this my thoughts:
-not a primary care field
-two-specialist couple
-focus in procedures and lucrative call, not humans being treated
-these “options” possible if one has chronic illness, elder care, etc
-derisive towards colleagues
-no interest in equity

Realistic?
It’s great that doctor made it work to retire at 43 and have gotten the math right all along. If one is going to judge colleagues, though, be ready for the reverse. We have a rising maternal mortality rate and increasing disparity. IUDs are an important part of reducing that, yes
Even if we stick just to ob/gyn field: some may wish to not only be the “IUD queen” (birth control is SUPER important - not at all discounting it), what about the ob/gyn who chooses to live in NYC and focus in whole person care for WOC who do give birth?

health.ny.gov/community/adul… ImageImageImageImage
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