Germany has lost the plot on #prostitution so completely that we are seriously after 20 years of legal free-for-all for sex buyers debating whether maybe letting them gang-bang women in a state of advanced pregnancy might be just slightly medically and ethically questionable? 🤦♀️
And I'm pissed off at both sides here because the right is only interested in this because they care about unborn children, i.e. they're also currently restricting our abortion rights, and the left just cares about men's pleasure and pretending that it equates to women's freedom.
But the #prostitution of heavily pregnant women is not a matter of personal opinion. And it's also entirely unrelated to questions of sexual agency, e.g. when a pregnant woman chooses to have sex for her own pleasure or sex to help induce labour. It's simply extremely dangerous.
We're talking about heavily pregnant women being penetrated by 3-20 men per day to make rent. In the case of "gang bangs" (gang rapes), it may be even more. This has got nothing to do with a pregnant woman having sex with a casual or committed partner because she feels like it.
From the testimony to parliament by German gynaecologist Dr. Wolfgang Heide: "My patient was 22 weeks pregnant and unable to obtain unemployment benefits. She had to go through 3 different courts until she was granted benefits to stop #prostitution." bundestag.de/resource/blob/…
"There are no prostitution specific studies, but we have 200 current studies on the impact of psychological stress during pregnancy and the associated risks for mother and child." Here's from a family ministry study into psychological distress of women in #prostitution:
In theory, Germany has very strict laws to protect pregnant women. We are not applying them to #prostitution, because they cannot be applied. Women in the sex trade have fewer rights than women everywhere else! Let that sink in.
4) no exposure to harmful chemicals (brothels are full of cigarette smoke, alcohol, drugs, disinfectant, etc.) 5) may not work longer than 8.5 hours (shifts in brothels can be 12h+), 6) no night shifts (although lunchtime is busiest, brothels, of course, have night shifts).
7) During pregnancy and four months after a woman cannot be fired. But women in #prostitution are 99% independent contractors and can be gotten rid of more easily than if they were full employees. If they don't make money, brothels kick them out.
Dr. Heide reports: "Gang bangs with 30+ men and a heavily pregnant woman costs just 30€ (drinks included). The women who come into my practice say: 'We don't tell you the worst that happens to us.' But we know of 'sex games' with faecal matter involving pregnant women."
German gynaecologist working with women in #prostitution: "What we're seeing is nearly unbearable. The well-being of mother and child is our charge, but how can we do that, when the woman has to see 15-40 sex buyers per day."
German gynaecologist: "The risk of contracting STIs during early pregnancy is increased in #prostitution! For example: Syphilis can be passed to the fetus and lead to miscarriage or severe fetal injury. Same with gonorrhoea." Protecting pregnant women has to start early not late!
German gynaecologist: "A pregnant woman despite wearing gloves may not come in contact with dangerous substances, including blood, but it is legal that she should have to have intercourse with up to 30 sex buyers per day?" This treats prostituted women as second class humans.
German gynaecologist: "The reality for pregnant prostitutes in Germany: Some don't even have health insurance. Some keep their pregnancy secret for fearing violence from pimps or for losing customers and to avoid pregnancy fetishists. 3 days after birth they are back at 'work'."
German gynaecologist: "Women in #prostitution who come into my practice are giving up their children for adoption. A catastrophic & depressing impact on the mother." These are the children removed from mothers the pro-sex-trade-lobby isnt talking about. This happens all the time.
German gynaecologist: "A prostituted woman had just given birth. She had the usual injuries, vaginal and perineal tears, still bleeding and experiencing pain. It can take months to heal. She asked me to help her get back to 'work' after 3 days because she had debts to pay off."
German gynaecologist: "The sex buyers are not careful with pregnant women. The women say that they're quite brutal. Having to see 15-30 men after just giving birth can cause lasting injury, including permanent incontinence. This doesn't even cover the psychological harms."
German gynaecologist: "Some prostituted women aren't using contraceptives because they cannot afford them. The women are happy when we gift the ibuprofen because they are used to constant abdominal pain. They notice the pregnancy too late, unwanted ones can no longer be aborted."
The report goes on, but I'm exhausted and heartbroken. So I'll repeat myself and say: Germany treats women in #prostitution as second class human beings by giving them fewer protections than women in any other job in the name of "sexual" and "occupational freedom". Shame on us.
For those who think #decrim may be the solution: The idea behind #fulldecrim is the decrease not increase of prostitution specific regulations. Pregnant women in the sex trade need protections SOONER than women in other jobs, #fulldecrim won't do this.
We need a fund so that women in the sex trade who have little employment protections cause they're "independent contractors" or who have precarious immigration status can take breaks or exit any time. Not just the pregnant women. ALL women. But we won't get it with #sexworkiswork
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Reason #1545 of why I'm against the sex trade: It's not uncommon for fathers or friends of male minors to take them to brothels to turn them into "real men". It's an ancient patriarchal practice that still exists today across the world. This is both child abuse and abuse of women
The majority of women in the sex trade who can refuse to see a minor absolutely will. But what if it's legal like in e.g. Switzerland? There 16 to 17-year-old boys go to brothels all the time. "They have no respect, because of the porn they watch." blick.ch/schweiz/ex-dir…
Quote from a Swiss boy in whose country paying to access women's bodies is legal from the age of 16 (and selling girls 16-17 years of age was legal until 2013): "None of my buddies are ashamed of paying for sex. Quite the opposite. We go to school and boast about it."
TW: Rape. Sex buyers break women's boundaries all the time by wearing them down till she stops fighting back. It's still #rape. Just because she didn't kick and scream doesnt make it consensual. We still have a lot of education to do as smn on Insta is defending this rapist.
It's still seared into people's minds including this buyer and his defender that silence is consent (even though she clearly said "No!" twice). It's one of countless examples of how women raped by sex buyers know they won't get justice so they resign to the violence inflicted.
This woman speaks little German and is likely an economic refugee. You really think she's just gonna report him to authorities? She's busy trying to make ends meet. She's got no proof of a crime. She recieved money for it. Half of Germany thinks she's a nympho or greedy foreigner
For 3 years I've wanted to write about why men murder women in the sex trade. I've been waiting for the publication of a study on the subject in Germany that finally come out a month ago. Stay tuned for my summary. Its painful but necessary to know who, when, where and why.
The state sanctioning the sex trade does not prevent lethal violence against women in #prostitution. From hands-off essentially decriminalized Berlin to the nearly prohibitionist German South, here is who is killing whom, when, where, how, and why. ellyarrow.wordpress.com/2021/03/29/who…
Murder in the sex trade is about as old as the industry itself. In Germany paying for sex has rarely ever been expressly illegal, yet sex buyers make up more than half of perpetrators (a lot of serial killers are buyers). It's not illegality of the trade that makes men kill women
Doubles standard at German Aids Aid who have worked alongside the pro prostitution lobby: They will promote condom use in a prostitution context in South Africa naming sex buyers as the cause of high infection rates but campaign against mandatory condom use in brothels in Germany
It boggles the mind and throws dirt on the painful history of the AIDS epidemic which was falsely labelled a "gay disease". If you want to destigmatize people living with HIV/AIDS and people in prostitution you wouldnt promote people playing Russian roulette with their health.
Fun fact: New Zealand has had rules about condom use for both parties in prostitution as well as brothels displaying signs promoting condom use since it introduced fully state sanctioned prostitution. Germany took 15 years to realize this was necessary after introducing its law.
Thread on what #sexbuyers say about Asian women in the legal German sex industry. If we leave out the #sextrade from our critique of #racism, we will never dismantle it. #StopAsianHate. TW: Racism, misogyny, violence against women. (All images are stock photos)
„I find fully shaven women quite boring, so I’m practically only bedding Asians at this point. Amongst the Asians, you find the highest number of all-natural pussies. Besides that, Asian women know how to spoil a man.“ - German #sexbuyerdieunsichtbarenmaenner.wordpress.com/2018/11/29/asi…#StopAsianHate
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When people advocate for legal #prostitution I think they have a much too vanilla view of what it is men pay women to do or endure. For all the times' abolitionists are called "prudes", it's really a lot of "sex pozzies" who don't understand the extent of what they're endorsing.
Yes, a lot are just your regular father-of-two cheating on his wife or angry over a divorce looking for a woman maybe his own age, but usually younger, for some usual oral on him, then vaginal in various positions, it's over when he orgasms. Bad enough, but it gets worse.