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20 Mar, 14 tweets, 8 min read
For 3 years I've wanted to write about why men murder women in the sex trade. I've been waiting for the publication of a study on the subject in Germany that finally come out a month ago. Stay tuned for my summary. Its painful but necessary to know who, when, where and why.
The state sanctioning the sex trade does not prevent lethal violence against women in #prostitution. From hands-off essentially decriminalized Berlin to the nearly prohibitionist German South, here is who is killing whom, when, where, how, and why. ellyarrow.wordpress.com/2021/03/29/who…
Murder in the sex trade is about as old as the industry itself. In Germany paying for sex has rarely ever been expressly illegal, yet sex buyers make up more than half of perpetrators (a lot of serial killers are buyers). It's not illegality of the trade that makes men kill women Image
Murders in the German sex trade are a form of #femicide. Some Romanian feminists have even started speaking of #genocide considering how many women from their country die early deaths due to violence, abuse, long-term health issues caused by sex buyers, pimps & societal neglect. Image
Indoor #prostitution is decidedly not safe. Women in the German sex trade are routinely murdered in apartment brothels, including those shared with other women, and mega-brothels, with cameras, security, panic buttons, etc. Nowhere is safe from men's lethal violence. Image
All of Germany's mega-brothel chains have been busted for #trafficking of adults and minors and for #murder inside their walls: The "Pascha", "Eros Center" and "Paradise" chains were all held up as "clean ethical" prostitution and have fallen out of favor. ImageImageImage
I think the most important issue here is why men kill women in the sex trade. The real reasons are misogyny, racism, entitlement, lack of empathy, outward-directed self-hatred, and in the case of robberies greed. But there are various ways narratives in society feed those causes. Image
The most likely killer is a #sexbuyer - so what drives him? He usually feels "exploited" by the woman somehow. How dare she ask to be paid? Ask for that much money? Refuse to see him? Refuse this or that act? Not show more enthusiasm? This is a culture of extreme male entitlement Image
These are two sex buyers commenting on the murder of a woman at the hands of a guy they talked to regularly on the forums. #VictimBlaming of raped and murdered women being "too careless" and "insufficiently professional" extends into the whole of German society. Image
The second-largest group are serial killers (a lot of whom are also prolific sex buyers). We have a "ripper" in Germany every few years and barely take notice because it's just so normal. Sadly, yes, these crimes are hard to investigate, because the suspect pool is often large. Image
Then there are #pimps who kill women when they lose control over them. Or women getting caught in the crossfire of organized crime, which still runs the majority of the #sextrade, despite or rather because of its legality. Pictured is the German gang "United Tribuns". Image
Many of the ex-partners who murdered women in #prostitution were also pimps or sex buyers. They were often twice the age of the woman and the partnership was an extension of or attempted escape from previous exploitation, not a love relationship. Image
The rest of perpetrators are robbers or rapists trying to cover up their crime, as well as the rare case of an acquaintance or friend of the victim. Only in prostitution are you more likely to be murdered by your "customer" or "boss" than someone from within your private circle.
Finally let's remember women in the sex trade who were murdered by men as people, not numbers. Here are many of the cases in Germany from the last 2 decades:

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3 Mar
Doubles standard at German Aids Aid who have worked alongside the pro prostitution lobby: They will promote condom use in a prostitution context in South Africa naming sex buyers as the cause of high infection rates but campaign against mandatory condom use in brothels in Germany
It boggles the mind and throws dirt on the painful history of the AIDS epidemic which was falsely labelled a "gay disease". If you want to destigmatize people living with HIV/AIDS and people in prostitution you wouldnt promote people playing Russian roulette with their health.
Fun fact: New Zealand has had rules about condom use for both parties in prostitution as well as brothels displaying signs promoting condom use since it introduced fully state sanctioned prostitution. Germany took 15 years to realize this was necessary after introducing its law.
Read 10 tweets
1 Mar
Thread on what #sexbuyers say about Asian women in the legal German sex industry. If we leave out the #sextrade from our critique of #racism, we will never dismantle it. #StopAsianHate. TW: Racism, misogyny, violence against women. (All images are stock photos) Image
„Basically I like the chinky eye type best. Love looking into her eyes while she’s blowing me." - German #sexbuyer. dieunsichtbarenmaenner.wordpress.com/2018/11/19/i-l… #StopAsianHate Image
„I find fully shaven women quite boring, so I’m practically only bedding Asians at this point. Amongst the Asians, you find the highest number of all-natural pussies. Besides that, Asian women know how to spoil a man.“ - German #sexbuyer dieunsichtbarenmaenner.wordpress.com/2018/11/29/asi… #StopAsianHate Image
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10 Feb
⚠️⚠️⚠️Trigger warning for what I'm about to say - please mute if you'd like to avoid hearing about extreme #violence #vaw and #misogyny on your timeline. ⚠️⚠️⚠️
When people advocate for legal #prostitution I think they have a much too vanilla view of what it is men pay women to do or endure. For all the times' abolitionists are called "prudes", it's really a lot of "sex pozzies" who don't understand the extent of what they're endorsing.
Yes, a lot are just your regular father-of-two cheating on his wife or angry over a divorce looking for a woman maybe his own age, but usually younger, for some usual oral on him, then vaginal in various positions, it's over when he orgasms. Bad enough, but it gets worse.
Read 16 tweets
9 Feb
If you look into the subject of #ComfortWomen you'll find victims who were kidnapped minors, others deceived yet others previously in prostitution knowing they'd be entering a brothel. This doesnt make the latter group immune to the extreme violence & exploitation that occurred.
On the one hand definitive victims of military sexual slavery are being labelled "sex workers" on the other hand the harmful myth is propagated that such brutal military brothels didnt particularly harm women who were "experienced hardened sex workers". That is dehumanizing.
The exact same dynamics play out in modern prostitution: Those groups are all in the modern brothels next to each other and all subjected to the same brutal market forces, at risk due to the presence of organized crime and facing danger and abuse by the same men who pay for it.
Read 5 tweets
21 Jan
Today for the 1st time ever heard a German pro-#prostitution activist (self-identified "hobbyist dominatrix") mention the New Zealand model and saying we should adopt it because it eliminates human trafficking. No, it only eliminates human trafficking convictions. Big difference.
German's rates of convicting pimps are already continuously decreasing since we introduced our own highly deregulated liberalized model back in 2002. We went from 151 convictions in 2000 to 32 in 2011. Bureau of Criminal Investigations says convictions decreased, rates did not.
Meanwhile, New Zealand was doing the following to make it appear as though it didn't have human trafficking: They didn't have a law against domestic sex trafficking, which helped to ignore the fact that 1/3 of prostituted women were once commercially exploited girls.
Read 14 tweets
12 Jan
New research on the history of legal #prostitution in Germany focussing on the murders of women in the sex trade by @manuelaschon and Anna Hoheide. I am proud to have helped with translating this work that shines a light into the darkest corners. digitalcommons.uri.edu/dignity/vol6/i…
Key findings on the murders of women in German legal #prostitution: The daily fear of violence, potentially lethal, remains real for women, despite less fear of arrest by police. The primary perpetrators are sex buyers. The state does not care to collect official statistics.
Critics will claim the German law is a form of legalization (tight regulation forcing some women into illegal status) while one should support New Zealand's decriminalization (minimizing laws specific to prostitution). False distinction: German law on the left, NZ on the right...
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