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Jun 18 7 tweets 7 min read
The “Gold Standard” for Autistic Children.

So many Autistic people explain how & why ABA is abusive & harmful, yet many professionals continue to push it.

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I have heard this line so many times: “They told me ABA therapy was the ‘gold standard’ for Autism.”

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Professionals need to explain exactly what they mean by that, because gold standard is subjective; it will mean different things to different people.

Successful supports (as opposed to "therapies") will mean different things to different people.

What does it mean to the CHILD?
The “gold standard” ABA is known for is forcing Autistic children to behave as neurotypical as possible.

ABA uses punishments & rewards to train human beings like puppies under the guise of teaching “skills” needed to succeed in life.

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The problem with how this is done is it’s almost entirely centred around neurotypical adults--what they want from the child and for the child--not what the child wants or needs.

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These approaches are harmful because they only focus on surface behaviours & modifying them to fit some — often unfair & unrealistic — set of expectations, without respect or regard for the Autistic human being.

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Be the person in your child’s life who loves & accepts them for exactly who they are & protects them from harm, no matter what. That’s the "gold standard".

“I wouldn’t change you for the world, but I’ll change the world for you.”--Amy Wright “I wouldn’t change you for ...

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Jun 20
*New* article, More People Are Learning The Truth About ABA

Popular media has begun picking up on both the science and the sentiment

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In May, an opinion article was published in Fortune Magazine discussing the controversy surrounding ABA. Written by a lawyer named Ariana Cernius, the article outlines some of the problematic history & legal issues associated with ABA.

fortune.com/2022/05/13/aut…
This week, an article was published from my home province of Ontario. The reporter, @JessicaRDurling, included multiple perspectives in her story. Durling brought together voices from families, proponents of ABA, as well as Autistic self-activists who speak out about its harms.
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Jun 20
"There are legitimate situations where an autistic person needs to be able to put their autistic behaviours aside. For example, how about a job interview"--Bruce McIntosh

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Me: "Oh, I'm sorry! I forgot to leave my autism at home for our job interview. Here, let me stick it in my purse, so as to make you more comfortable interacting with me, regardless of my actual qualifications for this job."
"put their autistic behaviours aside".

They're not "autistic behaviours", they're *human* behaviours from an Autistic human being. There is a difference: autism is our *neurology*. Being Autistic impacts one's entire brain & body. We can't just "set it aside" like an accessory.
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Jun 19
I’ve heard this said about my son on more than one occasion, “he seems to think he can do what he wants, and doesn’t have to do something if he doesn’t want to.”

Um, well, yes.

He’s a human being after all, with free will and autonomy.

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Certainly all of our actions have consequences, and I mean naturally-occurring consequences, not adult-imposed punishments.

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Apr 9, 2021
Don't assume parents are writing open letters, or expressing their concerns about these changes having not read the (sparse) information provided. WE HAVE READ IT & still have very serious concerns. /1 #MBED #MBPoli Stop insulting the intelligence of Manitobans, @CliffCullenMLA
In schools that have PACs, they are primarily made up of white, higher-income Moms who have the resources, the time, & the privilege to volunteer at their children's schools. This is in no way to devalue their hard work. However @BrianPallister's comments made nasty assumptions..
@BrianPallister made comments insinuating that parents who have to work 2+ jobs to provide for their families aren't "making sacrifices" for their children's education. Their sacrifices are just different from those of the parents who can afford to volunteer on PACs #MBEd #MBPoli
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