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Good evening all, trust we had a great day? Tonight promises to be great on #BreakingBarriers as I will be sharing insights on 👇 👏 Help RT
@Antom_dapper @bofiasdaily @LanreAgboola1 @mpbeads_fabrics @OmosuleIdowu @Toyositg @segalink @Ibilola_Amao @AishaYesufu @bolanleisijola 1. When you fail, and you fail big, it feels like the end of the line. It
feels like everything you once hoped for and dreamed for is now
completely out of your reach. #BreakingBarriers @EstherIjewere @Amakamedia @iamtopehassan
@Antom_dapper @bofiasdaily @LanreAgboola1 @mpbeads_fabrics @OmosuleIdowu @Toyositg @segalink @Ibilola_Amao @AishaYesufu @bolanleisijola @EstherIjewere @Amakamedia @iamtopehassan 2. It takes an emotional toll on you. It
breaks you physically, mentally, and spiritually.

But, what I came to realize was that failure wasn’t the end of the
road. #BreakingBarriers @PhilipObin @vickyodesola
@Antom_dapper @bofiasdaily @LanreAgboola1 @mpbeads_fabrics @OmosuleIdowu @Toyositg @segalink @Ibilola_Amao @AishaYesufu @bolanleisijola @EstherIjewere @Amakamedia @iamtopehassan @PhilipObin @vickyodesola 3. Although it hurt more than I would care to describe, failure
served me more than it hindered me. It helped to build me up into who
I am today. It tends to do that for you.
#BreakingBarriers
@Antom_dapper @bofiasdaily @LanreAgboola1 @mpbeads_fabrics @OmosuleIdowu @Toyositg @segalink @Ibilola_Amao @AishaYesufu @bolanleisijola @EstherIjewere @Amakamedia @iamtopehassan @PhilipObin @vickyodesola 4. And, while hindsight is 20/20, the perspective gained from failure is
second to none. Most of the time, we’re worried more about the fear of
failure rather than the failure itself. What will others think? How
will I look in front of my peers? #BreakingBarriers
@Antom_dapper @bofiasdaily @LanreAgboola1 @mpbeads_fabrics @OmosuleIdowu @Toyositg @segalink @Ibilola_Amao @AishaYesufu @bolanleisijola @EstherIjewere @Amakamedia @iamtopehassan @PhilipObin @vickyodesola @paulocoelho @yinkanubi @SamAkinlotan @Saamira_S 8. How many times have you had events and situations where you failed in
the last couple of years?

Did you fail several times? How did you deal with the crushing blow of failure?

#BreakingBarriers @jide_martins
@Antom_dapper @bofiasdaily @LanreAgboola1 @mpbeads_fabrics @OmosuleIdowu @Toyositg @segalink @Ibilola_Amao @AishaYesufu @bolanleisijola @EstherIjewere @Amakamedia @iamtopehassan @PhilipObin @vickyodesola @paulocoelho @yinkanubi @SamAkinlotan @Saamira_S @jide_martins 9. Did you not fail at all? Listen up. You may have been sailing in the
safe harbors and unwilling to take risks to practice and perform at
the edge of your skill levels.

#BreakingBarriers
@Antom_dapper @bofiasdaily @LanreAgboola1 @mpbeads_fabrics @OmosuleIdowu @Toyositg @segalink @Ibilola_Amao @AishaYesufu @bolanleisijola @EstherIjewere @Amakamedia @iamtopehassan @PhilipObin @vickyodesola @paulocoelho @yinkanubi @SamAkinlotan @Saamira_S @jide_martins 10. Regardless of where you are at, the understanding and management of
failure benefits everyone.

Failure is a greatly misinterpreted word.

Failure scares us.

Failure demotivates us and drives us crazy with desperation.

#BreakingBarriers
@Antom_dapper @bofiasdaily @LanreAgboola1 @mpbeads_fabrics @OmosuleIdowu @Toyositg @segalink @Ibilola_Amao @AishaYesufu @bolanleisijola @EstherIjewere @Amakamedia @iamtopehassan @PhilipObin @vickyodesola @paulocoelho @yinkanubi @SamAkinlotan @Saamira_S @jide_martins 10. Failure can wreak havoc on our peace of mind and make us anxious and
stressed out.

Failure is generally perceived as a completely undesirable aspect of
life that you would rather avoid. #BreakingBarriers
@Antom_dapper @bofiasdaily @LanreAgboola1 @mpbeads_fabrics @OmosuleIdowu @Toyositg @segalink @Ibilola_Amao @AishaYesufu @bolanleisijola @EstherIjewere @Amakamedia @iamtopehassan @PhilipObin @vickyodesola @paulocoelho @yinkanubi @SamAkinlotan @Saamira_S @jide_martins 11. Why has failure attained this massive reputation as being completely
undesirable that can bring even the most level headed of people to
their knees and hoping that it never embraced their life?

#BreakingBarriers @lanrelewis @pearlgumede1 @babaidris090 @AishaYesufu
@Antom_dapper @bofiasdaily @LanreAgboola1 @mpbeads_fabrics @OmosuleIdowu @Toyositg @segalink @Ibilola_Amao @AishaYesufu @bolanleisijola @EstherIjewere @Amakamedia @iamtopehassan @PhilipObin @vickyodesola @paulocoelho @yinkanubi @SamAkinlotan @Saamira_S @jide_martins @lanrelewis @pearlgumede1 @babaidris090 14. There are no or very few shortcuts to success. The roads are paved
with failure and decorated with setbacks.

Do you rise after your failures or do you remain crushed and depressed?

#BreakingBarriers
@Antom_dapper @bofiasdaily @LanreAgboola1 @mpbeads_fabrics @OmosuleIdowu @Toyositg @segalink @Ibilola_Amao @AishaYesufu @bolanleisijola @EstherIjewere @Amakamedia @iamtopehassan @PhilipObin @vickyodesola @paulocoelho @yinkanubi @SamAkinlotan @Saamira_S @jide_martins @lanrelewis @pearlgumede1 @babaidris090 15. You may encounter many defeats, but you must not be defeated. In fact,
it may be necessary to encounter the defeats, so you can know who you
are, what you can rise from, how you can still come out of it.”― Maya
Angelou

#BreakingBarriers
@Antom_dapper @bofiasdaily @LanreAgboola1 @mpbeads_fabrics @OmosuleIdowu @Toyositg @segalink @Ibilola_Amao @AishaYesufu @bolanleisijola @EstherIjewere @Amakamedia @iamtopehassan @PhilipObin @vickyodesola @paulocoelho @yinkanubi @SamAkinlotan @Saamira_S @jide_martins @lanrelewis @pearlgumede1 @babaidris090 16. You’ll always miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. -Wayne Gretzky

The question is if you are continually taking the shots in your life
or are you assuming that you will fail and passing up on them?

#BreakingBarriers
@Antom_dapper @bofiasdaily @LanreAgboola1 @mpbeads_fabrics @OmosuleIdowu @Toyositg @segalink @Ibilola_Amao @AishaYesufu @bolanleisijola @EstherIjewere @Amakamedia @iamtopehassan @PhilipObin @vickyodesola @paulocoelho @yinkanubi @SamAkinlotan @Saamira_S @jide_martins @lanrelewis @pearlgumede1 @babaidris090 12. Every successful person knows that success is very hard earned.
Even more importantly they know that success is not a pinnacle to achieve.
In order to remain at a level of excellence,they understand that they
still need to miss shots as Michael Jordan did. #BreakingBarriers
@Antom_dapper @bofiasdaily @LanreAgboola1 @mpbeads_fabrics @OmosuleIdowu @Toyositg @segalink @Ibilola_Amao @AishaYesufu @bolanleisijola @EstherIjewere @Amakamedia @iamtopehassan @PhilipObin @vickyodesola @paulocoelho @yinkanubi @SamAkinlotan @Saamira_S @jide_martins @lanrelewis @pearlgumede1 @babaidris090 18. We need to remember that repeated attempts in something make us a lot better.

It is all about the practice and taking as many shots as you can.

How many shots are you allowing yourself to take?

#BreakingBarriers
@Antom_dapper @bofiasdaily @LanreAgboola1 @mpbeads_fabrics @OmosuleIdowu @Toyositg @segalink @Ibilola_Amao @AishaYesufu @bolanleisijola @EstherIjewere @Amakamedia @iamtopehassan @PhilipObin @vickyodesola @paulocoelho @yinkanubi @SamAkinlotan @Saamira_S @jide_martins @lanrelewis @pearlgumede1 @babaidris090 20. The idea that we will be rewarded by our setbacks and our failures may
be a foreign one to you but if you dig deeper, you will always find
some lesson or some new approach from your failures.
#BreakingBarriers
@Antom_dapper @bofiasdaily @LanreAgboola1 @mpbeads_fabrics @OmosuleIdowu @Toyositg @segalink @Ibilola_Amao @AishaYesufu @bolanleisijola @EstherIjewere @Amakamedia @iamtopehassan @PhilipObin @vickyodesola @paulocoelho @yinkanubi @SamAkinlotan @Saamira_S @jide_martins @lanrelewis @pearlgumede1 @babaidris090 22. We are all failures- at least the best of us are.― J.M. Barrie

Every single one of us has repeatedly failed in our journeys. Let that
sink in to your consciousness.

As I write this, I need to allow this wisdom to sink into my understanding too. #BreakingBarriers
@Antom_dapper @bofiasdaily @LanreAgboola1 @mpbeads_fabrics @OmosuleIdowu @Toyositg @segalink @Ibilola_Amao @AishaYesufu @bolanleisijola @EstherIjewere @Amakamedia @iamtopehassan @PhilipObin @vickyodesola @paulocoelho @yinkanubi @SamAkinlotan @Saamira_S @jide_martins @lanrelewis @pearlgumede1 @babaidris090 23. The idea that every great success comes after and beyond great
failures is a wonderfully liberating one. Now you have the permission
to try your best, fail if that is the outcome and then do something
else with that knowledge.

#BreakingBarriers
@Antom_dapper @bofiasdaily @LanreAgboola1 @mpbeads_fabrics @OmosuleIdowu @Toyositg @segalink @Ibilola_Amao @AishaYesufu @bolanleisijola @EstherIjewere @Amakamedia @iamtopehassan @PhilipObin @vickyodesola @paulocoelho @yinkanubi @SamAkinlotan @Saamira_S @jide_martins @lanrelewis @pearlgumede1 @babaidris090 24. This understanding that everyone fails gives you the framework to
place failure in an essential light and not run away from it since
that would be highly detrimental to the success that you seek. #BreakingBarriers
@Antom_dapper @bofiasdaily @LanreAgboola1 @mpbeads_fabrics @OmosuleIdowu @Toyositg @segalink @Ibilola_Amao @AishaYesufu @bolanleisijola @EstherIjewere @Amakamedia @iamtopehassan @PhilipObin @vickyodesola @paulocoelho @yinkanubi @SamAkinlotan @Saamira_S @jide_martins @lanrelewis @pearlgumede1 @babaidris090 25. The best response to perceived failure is to ask oneself these three
powerful questions:

1)   What did I learn from this situation?

2)   How can I grow as a person from this experience?

3)   What are three positive things about this situation?
#BreakingBarriers
@Antom_dapper @bofiasdaily @LanreAgboola1 @mpbeads_fabrics @OmosuleIdowu @Toyositg @segalink @Ibilola_Amao @AishaYesufu @bolanleisijola @EstherIjewere @Amakamedia @iamtopehassan @PhilipObin @vickyodesola @paulocoelho @yinkanubi @SamAkinlotan @Saamira_S @jide_martins @lanrelewis @pearlgumede1 @babaidris090 26. Surrender&feel the fear;
Many of us allow fear to paralyze us because we don’t like feeling
fear. But if you simply allow yourself to feel the fear when it shows
up, you will notice that it quickly dissipates and suddenly the
situation feels more manageable #BreakingBarriers
@Antom_dapper @bofiasdaily @LanreAgboola1 @mpbeads_fabrics @OmosuleIdowu @Toyositg @segalink @Ibilola_Amao @AishaYesufu @bolanleisijola @EstherIjewere @Amakamedia @iamtopehassan @PhilipObin @vickyodesola @paulocoelho @yinkanubi @SamAkinlotan @Saamira_S @jide_martins @lanrelewis @pearlgumede1 @babaidris090 27. Reframe your goals :reframe failure by shifting your goals.  Expand your goal to
include learning something new and you will never technically “fail”
because there is always something to be learned. #BreakingBarriers
@Antom_dapper @bofiasdaily @LanreAgboola1 @mpbeads_fabrics @OmosuleIdowu @Toyositg @segalink @Ibilola_Amao @AishaYesufu @bolanleisijola @EstherIjewere @Amakamedia @iamtopehassan @PhilipObin @vickyodesola @paulocoelho @yinkanubi @SamAkinlotan @Saamira_S @jide_martins @lanrelewis @pearlgumede1 @babaidris090 30. People want to be successful but aren’t willing to
embrace the failures that will help them get there.
Optimism increases success by 37%
Continually invest in yourself whether things are up or down #BreakingBarriers
@Antom_dapper @bofiasdaily @LanreAgboola1 @mpbeads_fabrics @OmosuleIdowu @Toyositg @segalink @Ibilola_Amao @AishaYesufu @bolanleisijola @EstherIjewere @Amakamedia @iamtopehassan @PhilipObin @vickyodesola @paulocoelho @yinkanubi @SamAkinlotan @Saamira_S @jide_martins @lanrelewis @pearlgumede1 @babaidris090 31. We run from failure without knowing that it's one of Catalyst for success. Any successful person in life will have stories to tell. No shortcut to success. Success and failure are part of life's journey.

#BreakingBarriers @BukkyShonibare @dejiirawo
@Antom_dapper @bofiasdaily @LanreAgboola1 @mpbeads_fabrics @OmosuleIdowu @Toyositg @segalink @Ibilola_Amao @AishaYesufu @bolanleisijola @EstherIjewere @Amakamedia @iamtopehassan @PhilipObin @vickyodesola @paulocoelho @yinkanubi @SamAkinlotan @Saamira_S @jide_martins @lanrelewis @pearlgumede1 @babaidris090 @BukkyShonibare @dejiirawo 34. Don't be myopic, battered, limited, wearied and discouraged by your failure and whatever your are going through.

Regardless of what life is throwing at you, how you use and see it is what matters. #BreakingBarriers
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