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There is no such thing as a "slut."
There are people who have more sex than average, whatever that is, or with more partners than average, but that's not a negative, and we don't need a derogatory word for it any more than we need one for people who dance more than average.
There are people who have more sex than average, whatever that is, or with more partners than average, but that's not a negative, and we don't need a derogatory word for it any more than we need one for people who dance more than average.
(If you mean "cheater," say that. The problem with cheating isn't that the cheater is having more sex, or having sex with multiple partners--it's that they're breaking an agreement. So don't conflate that with people who are doing the former without doing the latter.)
And, like, look, I'm saying this as someone who's demisexual, is hardwired for monogamy, has been cheated on, and is largely baffled that sex and sexuality seem to be such a central part of most people's lives: there's nothing wrong with having a lot of sex with a lot of people.
