Thread by @TW_Beckett

If she's not talking to you, she's:

- Talking to someone else
- Has stuff going on
- Is busy

So if you aren't getting her attention, you're not on her radar.

Be absent and attend to your own life.

If she wants you, she'll come get you.

When you focus on other girls and she sees you aren't giving her attention, she'll wonder why the attention went away.

If she truly is busy with life and you aren't important enough to be in hers, you'll thank yourself later for going out and meeting other women.

It never pays to wait out a woman.

You have better things to do.

If she truly wants to be in your life, she'll be available to you.

If not, move on.

And yes, keep her number.

Because you never know.

Living your life and being busy with your own self improvement is just as good if not better than dating other girls.

You're too busy for her with your own life.

She either bolt or will be intrigued that you have an interesting life.

Maybe she wants to be a part of it?

Always keep your leads though.

You never know when a girl you asked out may become available again.

Keep the coals hot.

But move on and do other things.

I've been witness to girls coming back into my life after they break up or get divorced.

You just never know.

That's why you keep your leads as you work on new ones.

Even if you have no leads, you still have leads. Your life is your ultimate lead.

You'll know if she's interested.

You'll know. I promise.

If she's not, you'll know that too.

As has always been preached on this side of Twitter, your attention is valuable.

You are valuable.

When you feel this way, you find that women take an interest in you much more than if you are waiting for every text from her.

It all starts with you.

On a dry spell? So am I.

But I've never stopping. I will still approach and ask girls out.

But I will also focus on myself when my leads dry out.

And always be working for more leads.

It never stops.