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Sep 15 • 17 tweets • 3 min read
Why Are Autistic/ Neurodivergent Individuals More Vulnerable to Cults or toxic groups?

1. Vulnerability:
Autistic individuals face challenges in *social emotional* understanding, making them more susceptible to manipulation by toxic individuals, leaders, groups or cults. 2. Reading Social Cues:
Autistic individuals have a lower ability to detect *deception*. This means they might not recognize when they're being lied to or manipulated, a common tactic in cult/group recruitment. They also may misunderstand someone being genuinely nice to them.
Sep 3 • 11 tweets • 3 min read
👺Narcissists/predators employ a tactic known as “memory holing” to manipulate and control their victims, a form of ‘gaslighting’. This can cause trauma and PTSD to the target.
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Here's how this process typically unfolds:

🔻Distortion of Reality: Narcissists perceive their reality through a *distorted* lens. They deny events, conversations, or promises ever happened. They also live untethered from reality and are often delusional They are known to say, “That never happened,” or “You're imagining things,” even when the target has clear memories or documented evidence to the contrary. This is solely designed to make the victim question their own memory, reality and sanity.
Aug 25 • 14 tweets • 3 min read
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Narcissistic abuse example: Laura and Mark

Laura met Mark at a professional conference Mark was charming, successful, and seemed incredibly attentive. He quickly swept Laura off her feet with grand gestures, constant communication, and an *apparent* deep interest in her life This phase, often called “love bombing,”, made Laura feel like she was in a fairy tale. After all, he was her knight in shining armour, right?

The Shift:
🚩Isolation:
After moving in together, Mark started to subtly criticize Laura's friends and family, suggesting they didn't really care about her or were bad influences
Oct 23, 2023 • 14 tweets • 2 min read
Psychic epidemics or mass psychosis is what we are seeing today 2023 & appears to be a collection of several smaller psychic epidemics forming into a much larger one. In Carl Jung's terminology, a psychic epidemic refers to a collective & contagious manifestation of certain psychological themes or archetypal symbols within a society or a group of individuals. Jung believed that the human psyche is connected on a deeper level, and when certain *ideas* thoughts words or symbols become charged with emotional energy,
Feb 22, 2023 • 6 tweets • 1 min read
How do you tell if someone is a ‘Narcissist’? By their ‘behaviours’, regardless of who the person ‘says’ they are. Always go by behaviours. 1. Trolling 2. Mobbing, gossip & smear campaigns 3. Name calling 4. Narcissistic rage 5. Projection & gaslighting 6. False accusations 7. Withholding 8. Stalking 9. Passive Aggressive 10. Inability to resolve issue & move forward 11. Black & white thinking 12. Splitting 13. Threatening or violent Words 14. Sulking 15. Coercion 16. Highly controlling &/or a group ‘leader’ & control the group
Nov 19, 2022 • 13 tweets • 9 min read
Cult recruitment: In order for ‘cults’ to be successful they rely on ‘recruiting’ others. They target ‘vulnerable’ isolated, alone, neglected children or adults. For vulnerable people, #cults are very tempting because the cult provides love-Bombing #stage1 A sense of safety, promises of rewards friends & actual rewards. Who could possibly refuse? They typically use becoming more joyful, happy, obtaining bliss as a #promise Who wouldn’t want that? A new family? #Acceptance? Love? It’s a nice loving supportive environment initially
Oct 13, 2022 • 8 tweets • 4 min read
🧘‍♀️ For those who what to learn to control your mind, I highly recommend the ‘Leaf’ exercise. You cannot manifest anything without controlled sustained, attention, thought & feeling. 1. Sit somewhere very quiet 2. Close your eyes 3. Breathe slowly 8 counts in & out 4. Imagine you are sitting outside by a lake & your favourite leaf 🍁 Is floating down from above and in front of you. It is floating Slowly side to side down to land on the water in front of you. As your eyes follow the leaf, think of how the leaf looks, how it floats & moves
Sep 18, 2022 • 6 tweets • 3 min read
🔥Toxic pity & empathy are the biggest tactic an adult will use against you. Do not pity them. People sneak pity in renaming it sympathy, empathy, compassion. You will be harmed by this because #clusterB use this as their primary strategy to manipulate you. Do not do anything in Relationship because you feel sorry for them, ever. This leads to an assumed action. #clusterB get you to feel sorry for them are 🚩 They are ‘victims’ who can’t help themselves. Many periods can help themselves. Feeling sorry for them may not be the best course. All
Sep 16, 2022 • 4 tweets • 2 min read
🔥Thread on having too much empathy 🧵: why can having too much empathy be bad for society, cause health professionals or autistic people to get into trouble? Some examples from my career: Having too much empathy can blind you to common sense & reason. For example, one person May Feel entitled to doxx others for their activist ‘empathy’, when not deserved. an autistic teenager starts bringing home stray cats and eventually a homeless male stranger placing herself in danger, a therapist allows her teen client to stay at her place overnight and faces
Sep 16, 2022 • 16 tweets • 5 min read
🔥 How to have a better life: KNOW the 6 DARK red flags 🚩 of toxic people & stay away from them: 🔥1. Constant Drama 🎭 those that create, spread or are complicit in gossip, lies, manipulation, deception & gaslighting. Many people are unconsciously addicted to drama due to toxic Childhood/parents, TV, SM, MSM, government. Be honest with yourself and ask “why am I doing or allowing this?” 🔥2. NARCISSISM: The levels of narcissism have reached epidemic proportions in society. Many people think this is ‘normal’. It’s not. It’s unhealthy & dysfunctional
Sep 12, 2022 • 8 tweets • 3 min read
Therapist Tip: Learn the language of ‘gaslighting’. 🔥Gaslighting IS the ‘denial’ of reality🔥1. “I never said that” 2. “You didn’t say that” 3. “I never did that” 4. “That didn’t happen” 5. “I didn’t go anywhere” (after ghosting you) 6. “You are crazy” 7. “You are a fraud” 8. “You must be forgetting things” 9. “You aren’t remembering it right”. 10. “You have a bad memory”. 11. “You need to get help” 12. “You are making that up” 13. “You are fabricating lies” 14. “It’s your fault” 15. “They all agree with me” 16. “You always remember things wrong”
Sep 5, 2022 • 16 tweets • 5 min read
The ‘eyes’ thread for beginners 101: Many people are finding my ‘eyes’ tweets helpful, interesting, fascinating & disturbing. I was trained in this during my post-Masters externship. As the world deteriorates & more people become harmful, it is imperative you learn about the eyes, facial affect or expressions, inappropriate facial affect that does not match content & context, #bodylanguage & forensic statement analysis. People cannot control their #subconscious behaviors & words, ‘leaking’ out #psychological information about themselves
Sep 3, 2022 • 4 tweets • 3 min read
#Justice @TamePunk has been served and I have Been officially recognised by the Artorney General as a ‘Victim of Crime’ as the ‘primary Victim’. Never give up your fight for justice from your #abusers. This has occurred for a period of 10 years, with no end in sight & involves Image A small group Of people whom I know the names of. May they face consequences in the future. I am not allowed to speak of details at this time, but suffice to say recognition of this #crime is healing & a part of my recovery. Thank you to the Attorney General Image
Sep 3, 2022 • 4 tweets • 2 min read
Make sure you know #Narcissist #ASPD #clusterB secrets🤫 Here are top secrets they keep from you👇
🚩1.They go through your stuff (your phone, your drawers, your computer, your cupboards, your home your personal belongings, your social media, your emails) when you’re not looking 🚩2. They video, record/take photos of you without your knowledge or take your online materials
🚩3. They watch you, stalk you, get others to watch, stalk and keep tabs on you, either off-line or on-line
🚩4. They are ‘actors’, have personas, act all tough, strong & independent
Aug 21, 2022 • 6 tweets • 2 min read
If gender clinicians were trained in #autism #adhd #aspergers they might understand the multitude of factors to be considered in gender Dysphoria: PCOS, emotional immaturity (3 or more years behind peers), fear of change and uncertainly, theory of mind issues, slower processing Working memory, a spikey cognitive profile, a late diagnosis or no diagnosis, social naivety & gullibility, interoceptive, Alexythymia, sensory processing issues, proprioception issues, social & communication issues, literal concrete black & white thinking, executive function
Aug 20, 2022 • 4 tweets • 1 min read
Mind control deprogramming: YOU have been programmed since childhood 1. Question you religious upbringing 2. Question MSM, SM & marketing. 6 corporations own All of the media 3. Question ‘established’ science & research 4. Reduce unnecessary consumption of information 5. Become less egocentric by doing the work on yourself 6. Stop giving your power away to authority
7. Learn to critically think & reality test 8. Question the education system 9. Start meditating & get your mind & your own thoughts back. Become aware of your programs, thought
Aug 5, 2022 • 16 tweets • 9 min read
Therapist Tip: 1 in 44 children are now born with #autism A core theme in many #autistic #aspergers #adhd individuals is self hatred or self-loathing, in both the diagnosed & undiagnosed. Many are unaware they are #neurodivergent Many are misdiagnosed or have missed diagnoses Those who were late diagnosed (after kindergarten) are included. A common theme is growing up feeling 'different', 'not fitting in', being bullied, not being accepted, 'feeling like an alien', not understanding oneself, confusion, negative self-esteem, #adhd #selfesteem
Aug 4, 2022 • 26 tweets • 12 min read
Therapist 🧵: #Narcissistic Fixated Stalking. #Stalking is illegal in almost every country in the world, but that doesn't mean those who are stalked get the help they need. Stalking is on the Increase due to social media, lack of knowledge by law enforcement as to what #illegal To do with them, their high levels of manipulation & the law not keeping up with current times. Clusters B's are well known for stalking & taking revenge when they don't get what they want from you. Narcissists & psychopaths are even known to kill your pets.
Jul 22, 2022 • 23 tweets • 14 min read
Therapist Thread on #Narcissistic Injury & Narcissistic Rage 🧵: the reactions are disproportionate the the perceived 'slight', which is the injury. They are 'over the top'. For e.g. they want you to lose your entire career because you disagree with them on something. Narcissistic injury is caused by: 1.challenged confidence. When there excessive needs for admiration your attention, time, energy are not met, they will #rage to protect their ego. 2. Injury to the narcissists #selfesteem often occurs because they don't have a stable sense of
Jul 20, 2022 • 5 tweets • 3 min read
From my upcoming book 'Fixated': Analyzing the language of the dark triad': This is an example of common psychopathology in 'language' responses, with consent from a client. These are common responses. What happens when we set boundaries with ASPD, NPD, BPD, etc.? #Mentalhealth Setting #boundaries with people is healthy. It's what keeps us safe. Trouble is PD's or other socially unskilled people don't like or respect them. Example #1 Q: Please stop following me online, leave my social media alone & stop leaving unwanted comments. A: What do you mean?
Jul 11, 2022 • 22 tweets • 11 min read
Therapist Thread 🧵 The difficulty in treating 'self-hatred'. BPD, other PD's, autism, aspergers, gender dysphoric clients who often present with extreme self-hatred. They have a great need to avoid their subjective internal experience or deflect it with external anger of hatred They may be there in therapy but emotionally avoid, highly dissociate &/ or use drugs & alcohol, are hostile ("I hate all people", "no-one can help me", Shame- prone, isn't regular with appointments, never had a role model that cared for them in their life #therapy #hatredofself