I am not the one who talks about gay identity: you are. I have criticized identity talk. spiritualfriendship.org/2012/07/12/ide…
Aelred offered a new framework, which was Biblically grounded and which jibed more closely with what I had experienced.
@wesleyhill and I, however, see it differently. We think that at least some important aspects of the longings and desires of LGB persons would find their proper fulfillment in chaste friendship--which is true friendship.
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For though sometimes more violent and at other times slacker, yet without intermission does the flesh lust against the spirit and the spirit against the flesh, ...
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