The ones I knew were always so cloaked with spirituality that I couldn't find or connect with their humanity.
Don't even get me started on those ones who rather than tell you they liked, were attracted to or loved you, would hide under, "The Lord told me that you're my wife."
For these reasons and a few more, I just wanted a good man, preferably not of my faith.
I've met some who fit my specs. God-loving, brilliant, kind, honest, funny, suave, handsome (very handsome), ambitious & financially capable.