People come & go.
The person across the mirror stays the same.
You're going to be stuck with yourself forever homie.
Start making yourself the priority.
The person across the mirror stays the same.
You're going to be stuck with yourself forever homie.
Start making yourself the priority.
'Wait a minute! Make myself the priority? I've been making others the priority this whole time..'
How's that been working out for ya?
'Uh not so good.'
Why?
'Because people just push me around.'
Exactly.
'But why? I'm being nice. Shouldn't they like me more?'
Not quite..👇
How's that been working out for ya?
'Uh not so good.'
Why?
'Because people just push me around.'
Exactly.
'But why? I'm being nice. Shouldn't they like me more?'
Not quite..👇
I want to give you a little insight into how social dynamics works.
The whole 'nice' persona seems fine & dandy at first, but it's very dangerous.
'Dangerous? Okay bro. You're just being paranoid.'
No I'm not.
'Why should I believe you?'
Because I'm speaking from experience.
The whole 'nice' persona seems fine & dandy at first, but it's very dangerous.
'Dangerous? Okay bro. You're just being paranoid.'
No I'm not.
'Why should I believe you?'
Because I'm speaking from experience.
Many of us told us that being 'nice' will get us ahead in life.
Being nice was the true key towards likeability.
But in reality?
It is the exact opposite.
Making other people the priority over yourself is one battle that you will always lose.
'But why though??'
Being nice was the true key towards likeability.
But in reality?
It is the exact opposite.
Making other people the priority over yourself is one battle that you will always lose.
'But why though??'
The reason why is because the 'nice' mindset effects your behavior.
You come off as a very needy individual with low self esteem.
'Wow you just described me! But how can other people tell that?'
By your mannerisms.
Your body language & the way you interact indicate low value.
You come off as a very needy individual with low self esteem.
'Wow you just described me! But how can other people tell that?'
By your mannerisms.
Your body language & the way you interact indicate low value.
Let me know if this strangely sounds accurate to you:
▪excessive giggling
▪agreeing with every point
▪switching your beliefs to agree with others
▪shitty eye contact
▪fidgeting non stop
▪saying sorry a lot
▪ending every sentence with 'I think' etc.
▪excessive giggling
▪agreeing with every point
▪switching your beliefs to agree with others
▪shitty eye contact
▪fidgeting non stop
▪saying sorry a lot
▪ending every sentence with 'I think' etc.
'Wow you just described me! How did you know?'
Because once you adopt the people pleasing mentality, your behavior will indicate that.
Everything I described above are moves that happens when you assign someone else the higher social value.
You are making then the priority.
Because once you adopt the people pleasing mentality, your behavior will indicate that.
Everything I described above are moves that happens when you assign someone else the higher social value.
You are making then the priority.
Want to know the scary thing?
'What?'
Even if their conscious mind cannot tell that you percieve yourself to be low social value, their subconscious mind sure can.
'Wait really?'
Ya.
Our subconscious mind can spot fakeness, status levels, things out of the ordinary etc.
'What?'
Even if their conscious mind cannot tell that you percieve yourself to be low social value, their subconscious mind sure can.
'Wait really?'
Ya.
Our subconscious mind can spot fakeness, status levels, things out of the ordinary etc.
So what happens is that you automatically will become someone that they can never respect.
I mean how can they?
You do not even see your self worth.
How the fuck are they going to see your self worth?
*crickets*
Exactly.
And all this for what?
I mean how can they?
You do not even see your self worth.
How the fuck are they going to see your self worth?
*crickets*
Exactly.
And all this for what?
