At first you'll think you made the proper sacrifice for the relationship.
But with time?
Resentment builds.
Don't lower your standards.
Inspire them to up theirs.
Good question.
And I have the answer.
It all begins with a 2 step checklist....👇
1. Awareness
2. Changed behavior
If they don't display the 2 traits from the checklist, then guess what.
'What?'
They're holding you back.
'Gotcha! Can you explain this checklist?'
Sure.
You can try to inspire them all you want, but if they have poor awareness skills then you're wasting your time.
'Why? Won't a lecture work?'
Nah.
Humans need to be aware that there is something to fix before they fix it.
They'll confuse your inspiration as nagging.
So first, make sure they know for themselves that something is wrong.
You can guide them with strategic questions.
Many people are aware & know they have to change, but they don't do shit about it!
They go back to watching Netflix & gorging their fatass with Twinkies.
Which is why monitoring the changed behavior is crucial.
They should have the maturity to lead themselves & take care of business.
If they can't do that, then it's just another red flag you have to worry about.
Good.
An ambitious person dating a lazy person normally ends poorly.
So try out my 2 step strategy & see how it plays out.
Then dump em.
'Really??'
Ya. If you're as ambitious as you say you are, then this problem will continue to get worse.
Either break up now or in the future.
With one option you save time.
With the other you waste time.
No brainer.
Perfect.
Goodluck.
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