“Be more of yourself and kick ass” only works when that matches the stereotype of a successful elite college kid.
- make sure you get your first taste of success. Working at a great (often boring) company can help you get started. If you can get a job at Yahoo of 2003, Google of 2014, Facebook or Salesforce of 2018, take it!
If you are going (back to) college, learn something like analytics, data science, marketing software, etc.
Making $100K/yr is your first tangible goal.
You don’t have the luxury to hate those inbound LinkedIn messages that the 1% hates.
Spend time looking for people whose career path you can imagine you could aspire to. Extra points if they have your educational or financial background.
(I still do this. “What would Benioff do” is my secret to many decisions. I have a few of these people modeled in my head.)