1.Wanted population
2. Unwanted Population
Wanted population are assets to the society
Unwanted population are burden / scourge on the society
1.Hoposcopes of bride & bridegroom were matched
2. Gharbhodana samaskaras were followed before & after marriage by the bride & bridegroom
As soon as the marriage was fixed by elders , both the bride & bridegroom used to meditate on the Supreme Personality of Godhead Krishna to bless them with a divine child . They used to chant holy mantras every day until marriage
Now God has been replaced with " Me & Mine" . Reason for conflicts
That's the reason first night was fixed on an auspicious day wherein the divine ashwini kumars could bless the couple with divine souls as progenies
to respect elders,
cleanliness
Discipline
Cooking
They were thought as to how to be caring, affectionate & loving