-- go swimming
-- use a public restroom in a busy area
-- use a public restroom in a not-so-busy area
-- use any public restroom
-- not worry about dressing femme enough / too much
-- walk alone at night
-- not having to be polite to strangers asking to be taught
-- applying for a job confident that being trans will not matter
-- using any dating app without anxiety
-- not having to carefully control my anger when someone progressive and well-meaning randomly brings up how their friend/coworker/relative is a TERF
-- not being asked by a stranger at a party if I've seen this or that or the other trans movie or television show
-- not being told by a cis person that at least as a trans woman, I don't get street harassed or need to worry about assault or rape
-- not experiencing the incredibly odd and dehumanizing objectification that comes with someone, particularly strangers, feeling entitled to discuss sex with me because simply being a trans person means I must be into so-called "weird shit"