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THREAD on MY OPINION on how to deal with your emotional partner.
If you are dating someone who is very emotional, you should be very compassionate and this goes to men and women.
There is a stronger link and weaker link, sometimes the man could even be the weaker link.
If you are dating someone who is very emotional, you should be very compassionate and this goes to men and women.
There is a stronger link and weaker link, sometimes the man could even be the weaker link.
Whoever is the stronger link should always mind the words he/she says in other not to make things worse for the weaker link.
I’d use Alex in big brother as an example, she is a very emotional person and dating her means you have to be very careful with your choice of words.
I’d use Alex in big brother as an example, she is a very emotional person and dating her means you have to be very careful with your choice of words.
An emotional person won’t necessarily think first, the first thing for an emotional person is to feel bad and later on think but this person could be right or truly I was wrong.
There is no best time to tell an emotional person anything, an emotional person will still feel sad.
There is no best time to tell an emotional person anything, an emotional person will still feel sad.
When dating someone emotional and you want to say the truth and you know the truth is going to hurt him/her.
Start with, I’m not trying to make you feel bad, but that thing you did yesterday I don’t like it. And I don’t want it to happen again.
Start with, I’m not trying to make you feel bad, but that thing you did yesterday I don’t like it. And I don’t want it to happen again.
Instead of starting with, I can’t believe you can be this foolish, how the hell will you do that? I don’t like it and I needed to say my mind.
An emotional person will apologize to you but will feel bad for the rest of the day because of that statement.
An emotional person will apologize to you but will feel bad for the rest of the day because of that statement.
These two instances are almost the same but different approach.
Different emotional people have different ways to handle issues when they are emotional.
Some would prefer you to leave them alone, others would prefer you to give them attention and pet them.
Different emotional people have different ways to handle issues when they are emotional.
Some would prefer you to leave them alone, others would prefer you to give them attention and pet them.
So you have to learn the one your partner prefers.
When you ask an emotional person are you feeling bad? And they say no.
95% of the time it’s a lie. They don’t want you to feel that little things triggers them and they are acting extra.
When you ask an emotional person are you feeling bad? And they say no.
95% of the time it’s a lie. They don’t want you to feel that little things triggers them and they are acting extra.
It takes a patient lover to understand these things, so when he or she says I’m fine, it’s a lie. If they are the type that likes to be pet, go around them, use sweet words. Baby I didn’t know this would get you in a bad mood, relax, okay what do you want?
Rather than, abeg abeg this your mood, you have started again. Don’t give me headache. Are you fine or not? You don’t want to talk? That’s your business.
I could go and on with this but I’d end here.
This isn’t complicated, you just need to understand.
I could go and on with this but I’d end here.
This isn’t complicated, you just need to understand.
