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-When I ask a favor of a femme, do I ask if this person has the time/energy to help? Do I reciprocate?
-When I approach femmes do I ask if they want to speak to me? Do I interrupt them?
-What assumptions do I make when I see femmes together?
-Do I assume femmes “belong” to the masc folks around them?
-How do I treat masc friends differently than femmes? Why?
-How can I further divest from heteropatriarchal norms?