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An issue I’ve noticed on here is men seem to have a lack of understanding on what “mutual interest” is. It’s weird they want you to continue entertaining them even after stating “I’m not interested.” then be the first ones talking about oh she led me on.
I’ve told a man before I wasn’t interested in him & left it at that. He said I put him in the friend zone. I went on about my business & he placed himself in this non existent zone cause in his mind he thought oh she’s gonna come around eventually.
To continue trying to pursue a woman who has expressed she is not interested reeks of desperation. Once I say I’m not interested, don’t bother waiting around to see if I change my mind. I never do.
Another issue I see is men really don’t place chemistry & compatibility high on their scale when it comes to a woman they like. That’s why they act confused when they express interest & they don’t get the same energy back.
That’s why y’all willingly date/marry women you don’t like, have kids with women you don’t like, have casual sex with women you don’t like, etc. You do it out of desperation & for attention cause you hate yourself. You really allow people you don’t like to be in your presence?
Just because y’all like to entertain women you can’t stand or don’t really wanna be around doesn’t mean I need to follow suit. & you being a “good person” is not enough for me to even pay attention to you.
I don’t need to be grateful that you like me & that alone should not be the sole reason on why I should give you the time of day. That’s not how any of this works. If I’m not feeling you, it’s not happening. & trust me, I’m not the one to fake my feelings around anybody.
A man telling me I’m gonna end up alone & all that other guilt tripping bullshit doesn’t work on me. I’ve been living a fulfilling life before I even knew of your existence, trust me I’ll continue to be fine. You could die tomorrow & it would have no impact on me.
But y’all really on Al Gore’s internet trying to convince women that we’re the ones who are afraid to be alone, the biggest scam ever in modern times.
& the funny thing is, you would think men would be more happy that women are starting to prioritize themselves rather than revolving their lives around men, especially since y’all claim women are consistently pressuring you for commitment.
But nope, that’s not the case at all. You still go along with telling women these scare tactics of being alone & not having companionship when really you’re just projecting your own insecure feelings onto other women.
That’s why I keep saying patriarchy is a scam. How you label yourself the “dominant, logical, superior” gender but rely on a woman’s presence to want better for your life? I would think any man who labels themselves that could handle their business w/o a woman right?
