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Social Dynamics Laws:
1. Keep a small & strong circle.
2. Make people who like you, love you.
3. Ignore people who are iffy about you & hate you.
1. Keep a small & strong circle.
2. Make people who like you, love you.
3. Ignore people who are iffy about you & hate you.
Following these 3 laws will make your social life much easier.
If you are unhappy with your social life, chances are you are doing the exact opposite from the 3.
But that is a big mistake...
Let's go thru each one 👇
If you are unhappy with your social life, chances are you are doing the exact opposite from the 3.
But that is a big mistake...
Let's go thru each one 👇
1. Keep a small & strong circle.
Not to burst your bubble, but most people aren't loyal.
'They aren't??'
Nope.
Snakes are abundant & loyalty is scarce.
For that reason, you want to keep the circle small.
Not to burst your bubble, but most people aren't loyal.
'They aren't??'
Nope.
Snakes are abundant & loyalty is scarce.
For that reason, you want to keep the circle small.
One of the biggest limiting beliefs peddled by society is that 'more people means more popular.'
WRONG.
All you do is nurture surface level bonds & adopt a 'quantity over quality' mindset.
Make your circle exclusive.
Don't call everyone a friend so quickly.
WRONG.
All you do is nurture surface level bonds & adopt a 'quantity over quality' mindset.
Make your circle exclusive.
Don't call everyone a friend so quickly.
2. Make people who like you, love you.
If you're like most humans, you focus on what you DON'T have vs. what you DO have.
You wonder why someone doesn't like you or hit you up more.
So you start committing a social dynamics sin.
'Which is?'
Neediness.
If you're like most humans, you focus on what you DON'T have vs. what you DO have.
You wonder why someone doesn't like you or hit you up more.
So you start committing a social dynamics sin.
'Which is?'
Neediness.
As you try to get people who are iffy about you to like you, you begin to ignore the people who actually like you!
Silly shit.
Don't do that.
Lock in on the people who already like you.
Make them like you even more by providing value.
They will soon love you.
Silly shit.
Don't do that.
Lock in on the people who already like you.
Make them like you even more by providing value.
They will soon love you.
3. Ignore people who are iffy about you & hate you.
Ah, the iffy ones & haters.
Give them nothing.
Iffy people often turn out to be snakes.
Haters bring in bad vibes.
What do you get out of this?
Diddly squat, that's what.
Ah, the iffy ones & haters.
Give them nothing.
Iffy people often turn out to be snakes.
Haters bring in bad vibes.
What do you get out of this?
Diddly squat, that's what.
Your attention, time, energy are precious.
Don't waste it on trying to convert people to like you.
Be your most authentic self:
1. The right ones will magnetize.
2. The wrong ones will repel.
Don't waste it on trying to convert people to like you.
Be your most authentic self:
1. The right ones will magnetize.
2. The wrong ones will repel.
That's how the social game was meant to be played.
Quit overcomplicating it!
Just follow these 3 easy laws & you'll be good to go.
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Quit overcomplicating it!
Just follow these 3 easy laws & you'll be good to go.
Want more social dynamics insights?
Then sign up to my free daily newsletter & level up your social life:
armanitalks.com/newsletter
