Thread by @ArmaniTalks

Being rude to people who were rude to you isn't how the social game was meant to be played.

You letting them get a reaction out of you.

They're viewing you as their bitch.

Don't give them any reaction.

This will sting their soul.

You get the power back.

I'm gonna share some social insight with you.

A lot of people actively disagree with you for the SOLE purpose of getting a reaction.

'Wait, really??'

Ya. They wanna see if you'll take the bait

'What's the point of trying to get a reaction out of me? What will that do?'

It will make this person feel powerful in their powerless world.

'Hm... not sure if I'm following.'

Time for a social skills 101 lesson 👇

Winners are rarely rude.

Some of the most successful people I know are humble, kind & give back to charity.

They treat people with respect.

Therefore, the universe rewards them with success.

But rude people?

Exact opposite.

They have a poor self image & take out their agression on the external world.

They treat others the same way they treat themselves in isolation.

In the rude persons world, their ability to agitate is something to be proud of.

When they are able to alter someone else's behavior, they feel powerful.

They think they are 'exposing' someone.

And sadly, in many cases they are.

When you become rude because someone was rude with you, then you have allowed them to alter your emotional state.

You gave them the key to your internal world.

Tsk tsk.

It's a lose situation for you & a win for them.

Is that what you want? Well??!?

'No no that's not what I want!'

Then don't give them any satisfaction.

You know they are:

1. Projecting a poor self image. Therefore, it is not about you.

2. They thrive off a reaction. Therefore, no reaction is the socially intelligent move.

Which is why winners know the art of ignoring.

Only they control their behavior, no one else.

And that's why they remain UNAFFECTED.

Being unaffected is an art.

But more importantly, it is a skill.

Therefore it can be learned, practiced & mastered.

The better you get at this skill, the tougher your mind becomes.

And being unaffected makes the rude person curl up like the little bitch that they are.

'How come he isn't being mean back?? Am I not worth a response?' this clown thinks.

Exactly! They aren't worth a response.

You don't get your time back.

So give them nothing.

The less time you give them, the more they overthink & self destruct.

Weird how humans work.

But that's how idiots like this learn.

'So they actually LEARN when I don't respond?'

Correct.

When you don't respond, many of them begin thinking with logic.

They are able to get a reaction out of most people.

How come not you?

Once their fleeting emotions pass, they reconsider their opinion towards you with a rational eye.

And here's the kicker.

Their compassion often kicks in.

They feel bad that they behaved this way towards you.

Most people are rude back, so their ego is able to justify their initial behavior.

But with you?

They believe they took the wrong route.

Some may apologize. I've seen it happen many times.

But that's none of your concern.

Bottom line is that you conditioned to your subconscious mind that you control your behavior.

No one else.

That's the most important lesson from all of this.

Keep your power homie.

Don't give it up to anyone.

☆Many will try.
☆But no one will succeed.

Follow this mantra until it is ingrained.

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