Translation: “Despite readily available birth control, I got pregnant twice by a man (men?) who my Hypergamous subconscious knew was not the ‘best I could do’ so I terminated those children to continue my search for the ‘right guy’.
And yes, men should have a say in your reproductive choices when you are the sole arbiter of life & death.
Once the sperm leaves a man’s body he has 0% authority in anything after that. Abortion is eugenics. Women have determined the reproductive direction of western society since the Sexual Revolution. Yes, men should have a say in that.
Now you're gonna get the unvarnished truth about 'your' decisions.