They don't even see it. Our culture thinks men abuse, and women are abused.
Wrong.
That trope was created by solipsistic women, for solipsistic women.
Men and women aren't equals. They abuse differently.
A man is being abused by his woman if he finds himself:
- compromising his standards/values
- doing things he doesn't value/want to do
- saying things he normally doesn't say
- resenting her
Cut her off.
Women rarely resort to physical abuse of men. Abusive women simply cannot control a man physically. If she could, she would.
Women rarely abuse men physically. They abuse men emotionally and mentally.
How can I say such a thing? Female solipsism. It makes women more self-centered, self-interested, and selfish.
Watch how men instinctively react to a woman's pain, suffering, and tears. Men tend to soften and assist a woman that's crying.
Women don't have a similarly strong instinctive reaction for men.
Some women even use tears to manipulate men, exploiting that instinct.
Women do not have the same instinctive reaction to male distress. Her abuse isn't regulated by a man's tears or pain.
Like sharks smelling blood, women attack MORE aggressively.
Just watch how mobs of women attack men in the media MORE aggressively once he apologizes, and starts licking his wounds.
If you believe that as a man, it's only a short matter of time, and a few relationships, before you are abused by a woman.
Be careful.