-- especially in the bedroom.
No question.
The question isn't "if", but "by whom".
When a woman has raw desire for you, she not only welcomes her objectification, but is aroused by it.
-Being grabbed by the neck
-Being tied up and exhausted w/ orgasms
-Being urgently exposed, bent over, and pounded
This is the stuff women fantasize about;
BUT ONLY if it's done at the hands of a man she genuinely desires.
I barely touched her neck.
Just the suggestion of my hand around her neck made her react as if I had just touched the most erotic zone on her body -- more stimulating than her clit.
Result: gushing wetness, and orgasm.
Laying in bed after, both high on oxytocin and other endorphins, she commented on how "passionate" everything was.
At that moment, I gained some insight in how women interpret being "objectified" in the bedroom.
She sees it as urgent, raw, undeniable, uncontrollable passion and desire FOR HER.
It validates HER.
It excites HER.
It's the most authentic form of validation she can get.
She's yours to enjoy. Own her.
Obviously, she does NOT want to be harmed.
She DOES want to be handled as you would handle your most prized, enjoyed property.
Men maintain their property.
Men protect their property.
Men value their property.
Men are committed to their property.
When a woman has genuine desire for a man, she WANTS to be his property.
It makes her feel desired & safe.
Women WANT to be owned by high-value, desirable men.
If a woman resists your objectification of her, she doesn't truly desire you.
Ignore her.
Find a woman that desires you.
Become more desirable.
You've been conditioned to put women on a pedestal, and view them as angels.
You've been conditioned to defer to women, and self-censor your words & actions.
Retrain your mindset.
Like men, women are complex, dirty animals.
If your woman truly desires you, allow yourself the freedom to do what you want w/ her in the bedroom.
She wants it.
"Just do it."
Take it up with the 125,000,000+ women who bought the book "Fifty Shades of Grey" by E. L. James, took it home, got wet reading it, and thought about how much more "alive" they'd feel if the left their husbands. **
** see "divorce porn"
If you cross them, or fail to reward her with pleasure when you're in control, she won't desire sex with you for long.
But make no mistake.
Women instinctively want a man SHE TRULY DESIRES, to take control of her.
Control doesn't come without responsibility, and responsibility shouldn't come without control.
When a man is in control of his woman, he's responsible for making sure she's safe, and happy.
That is your burden as a man.