Women divorce men b/c she made a mistake, and her man was needy, weak, and allowed her to make it.
Her man allowed his need for sexual access to cloud his judgment, and her solipsism to mislead him. He was weak as a leader.
If she has sex w/ a man she doesn't desire, or that doesn't want to commit to her; it's HER fault.
Men choose when MARRIAGE happens.
If he marries a woman that doesn't truly desire him and isn't 100% invested in his greatness; it's HIS fault.
She isn't searching for men to divorce.
She's searching for, and WANTS to invest in a worthy, strong, masculine, virtuous man who will lead her to a good life.
To avoid divorce:
-be a worthy man
-NEVER accept less than a woman's true desire
These women become feminists.
Now she says she ONLY wants to use men, b/c she feels like they used her.
In pain, she lies to herself, to make her failures less painful.
To lessen the pain and sense of vulnerability, feminists will now say they ONLY want to use men.
Ignore her defensive delusions. She still wants commitment w/ a man she desires.