Some things to think about:
📃A Will
📃Living Will
📃Medical POA
📃Statutory Durable POA
📃Declaration of Guardian for Children
Much of it is listed on the Texas Bar website and other associated state government websites.
Everyone's situation is different. When in doubt, call a lawyer. (Not me, I mean a good one.)
They deserve the credit. makejusticehappen.org
They have an online consulting if you need to talk to a lawyer but can't afford it. I'll post at the end.
If you're not from Texas, you need to check the rules in your own state. (And, yes, they are different)
The easier option is to just move to Texas!
"That's right, you're not from Texas. But Texas wants you anyway."
If you don't have a will then the court will split your stuff up according to law.
If you have lots of "stuff" or have a feuding family: DON'T DO YOUR OWN WILL!
🤵Formal (get a lawyer)
&
🤷Holographic ("DYI")
There are many benefits of a formal will. Hire a probate attorney, they will explain them to you... then have them draft it.
But if you don't have a ton of stuff, or can't afford one...
1-ENTIRELY in your own handwriting
2-SIGNED (by you... duh)
3-DATED (when signed)
4-NAME an Executor to serve w/out bond
5-State WHO should get WHAT property
DO NOT NEED WITNESSES
DO NOT NEED NOTARY
It can NOT have any pre-printed words. If you are using a form to do this, it will not be admissible in TEXAS.
Use a blank sheet of paper with NOTHING else on it.
Use your normal handwriting. (in case they need to prove it up)
A holographic will must be in you own HANDWRITING in TEXAS. (No Pokemon stickers either, not law, my rule)
See Texas Estates Code: Sec. 251.052.
Send a copy to the person you listed as your executor. (See if Hallmark still has their "Oops, I named you my executor" cards.)
Meanwhile, refocus efforts on not "becoming worm food."
What do you want doctors to do when it's close to the end? Use every effort possible -or- let me go in peace?
This is a government form in English and Spanish (NEED 2 WITNESSES):
hhs.texas.gov/laws-regulatio…
It's also a form in English and Spanish (MUST BE NOTARIZED):
hhs.texas.gov/laws-regulatio…
Just like the others, it's a form in English and Spanish (MUST BE NOTARIZED):
hhs.texas.gov/laws-regulatio…
If you have kiddos and don't have close family (that you trust with your kids), then you may need to name another person to look after them in case everyone "kicks the can."
(Note: This form does not allow you to just give up your little monsters... that's a totally different form.)
(Also Note: This does not override existing child custody orders.)
(top of the page):
dfps.state.tx.us/site_map/forms…
(DON'T write down your passwords. There are formal ways to change access without breaking the law.)
Set up an online appointment by calling (713) 228-0735 between 9 a.m. and 3 p.m.
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