That sounds kind of hippie, doesn’t it? But that’s what is going on when the whole table argues about the airspeed of an unladen swallow, comes to agreement, and applies it to the game. That’s collaboration.
It’s a problem in *mixed* groups, where it is often viewed or characterized as an attempt to “win” conversations, and thus framed as anti-social, so it may be weird to think of it as collaborative, but there it is.
This can seem super counter intuitive to someone who approaches creativity differently, so I just ask you to trust me on this.