She: You are not serious, we are both looking for a job and you are proposing, do you think marriage is a joke?
He got a job.
Him: Will you marry me now?
She: So we will marry and be walking everywhere in the same attire on weekends, get a car joor!
Him: Will you marry me now?
She: So we will marry and be sharing that same 2 bedroom flat with your younger brother.
Noooooo.
I will like to have my own space. You need to get your own apartment and furnish it, make sure it is three bedroom. One room for guests
Will you marry me now?
Can anybody make a move without God? I am praying about it.
It will help if you will ask my parents for consent to seek my hand in marriage so that I can be sure of your intentions.
Her mother said: It is up to her
Her father said: Go ahead and ask her
Him: Will you marry me now?
She: Why are you rushing me, I have things to do. I want to do my masters in the UK
Her: I think we need so time apart
He was devastated
His younger brother comes around and said, there is a babe in my office. If I am not engaged, I would have joyfully propose to her. This is her phone number. She is very intelligent. Chat with her
She responds
He sends another
She responds
They chat all day and all night
Became fast friends but didn't meet face to face for three months
She wanted to see him but he sees her as a buffer keeping him sane until the love of his life comes to her senses
He liked who she is
He liked what she represents
He liked her candour
It didn't help that she is the opposite of the lady on self imposed exile
She is encouraging, homely, doesn't complain, is very generous, helpful, doesn't fuss about domestic stuff, a wife...
Her office is very far from home
She spends hours in traffic everyday
He offered her his guest room
Just for weekdays
She goes home for the weekend
Well...
The "love of his life returned from exile", saw the whole house had a feminine touch
Said: Is it the tenant in your guest room that has turned herself into a housegirl for you? I thought you said she is gainfully employed. Some people are just desperate in this world
He felt hurt by her words
He said ok.
She said Please don't come empty handed. Come with a basket of fruits. My parents will appreciate it.
He said ok.
He bought a basket of fruits
Went to her house with a friend
He and his friend ate amala and ewedu plus Ogunfe
He went to the car and brought in the basket of fruits
Her mother jumped
Her father jumped
They started praying
"MAY YOU HAVE MALE AND FEMALE CHILDREN IN JESUS NAME"
Hew was confused
He knew he didn't plan to propose
But well...
He and his friend got home
The love of his life was waiting by the entrance
She: Where were you? I have called you several times
Him: I was driving
Friend: We went to do his introduction
She faints
Friend: it is better to tell the truth once and for all
She after fanning her and pouring water on her an head revives.
She: Tell me it is not true
Him: Silent
Friend: Looks away
She: You men are wicked. After all these years. She cries and left
She was in the hospital for many months after. She really fell ill.
He wondered why she was forming when she really loves him that much.
This is is a real story
Both of them are happily married.
He married "tenant"in 2010
She married in 2018
- She never went to the UK
1) The guy she married is still searching for a job
2) Moved in with her into her own 2 bedroom apartment in Mowe, Ogun state
3) Drives her car
You can reason yourself out of a good thing
And...
You can stumble into a good thing