What if it's an abusive relationship?
What if your silence enables someone to continue assaulting other women on the side?
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But assuming you know enough to act in her best interest is not kind.
Given his manipulative behaviour in how he pre-empted the discussion with the author's friend, my guess would be that it was neither the first, nor the last, time he'd assaulted a woman.
As a matter of not saying anything publicly, I understand that choice.
But as a prescription for what is the 'right' thing to do, this is the wrong answer.
He did not, which means one of two things:
he either has no remorse,
or he believes he has something to hide.
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