Its not even the one that has the most accomplishments.
In fact, it's the men who run after such things that are trying to cover up some insecurities
Loves himself deeply
Has a dream that inspires him and others around him
He does not judge his life or that of any one else by a score
He does not not use money as a replacement for emotional connection
He doesn't judge his life by the things he owns
He does not always fight, sometimes peace is what matters
He does not take risks just because he can, he understands he is human also and can bleed
He does not walk around thinking "I'm the Man"
He doesn't break down other people in the process
He lifts others
He is looking for the best way to have the best relationship with family, friends, colleagues
He wants to be the best version of himself