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Received a letter of gratitude from a student from my graduate fluid dynamics class. Sharing a small section here.. "I will recall when I visited you in your office in the beginning of the semester: I lacked confidence as a new graduate student. I was shy but felt it was...
...important to explain my non-traditional situation for the upcoming semester in case that work might interfere with school, for say a meeting, etc. I was surprised and touched that you took a moment to ask about the path that led me to this semester and of my interests.
I’ve always felt self-conscious about the way I’ve had to go about my education as I come from a family that is historically uneducated and not wealthy, often feeling unprepared or not good enough in the context of Georgia Tech. I recalled to you my seemingly meandering ...
... choices over the years as I’ve slowly chipped at my dreams. After some discussion, you concluded that I’d chosen challenging paths all along, and that even though this new situation would be difficult, you saw no reason to believe I shouldn’t be successful.
Your simple observation shook me- it was unprecedented credit from an academic figure. Your acknowledgement validated my choices and helped me uproot my imposter syndrome, something my unconditionally-loving parents could not.
It made me feel more comfortable to admitting that I’m intelligent and I belong here and gave me courage to act as a graduate student. This may seem ridiculous, but it’s sincere. So, without intimidation and with integrity and encouraged by your enthusiasm for the content...
...I worked very hard this semester, and even though I didn’t earn the best test grades I am very proud of myself for my change of heart and for recognizing what I know I’m capable of. I believe I learned a great deal and have the tools to continue mastering this material.
I will continue improving as a student, professional, scientist/engineer, and individual. Thank you for voicing that you believed in my abilities. It has much more impact than you might suspect." (end-of-letter)
I am filing this letter into my 'happy' folder to read when I feel like an impostor (happens more often than you would believe). This is also the reason why I became an educator - my own story is non-conventional and I always encourage the misfits - if i can, you can!
