4) The most important life change for me in 2018 was to start deliberately practicing dirty talk. I noticed that when something crossed my mind that seemed like it might be good dirty talk AND I was afraid to say it, it was almost always GREAT DIRTY TALK.
Power: Ability to hold your perspective (Top Down Model in Predictive Processing) and bring others to it. Aka - Ability to make your map match the territory.
Love: Ability to see from another's perspective, and choosing to act from that.
Hat tip @tasshinfogleman
Power because you can build upon or propagate gems that are stuck in a garbage context
Horror because your ideas can be pulled from their context to be shown as garbage.
Psychological knots cause suffering, but are also adaptive
Only when it is warmed up, and there is slack in the system can it release.
When you're not doing things you think you SHOULD be doing, it just means you have some unexamined belief that doing that thing will conflict with deeper need
You hold onto your past, and imagine your future. They can (if they are not busy projecting themselves onto you) see what is right in front of them at the moment.
When you learn a new field (like math, chemistry, sociology), one of the key benefits is that your new vocabulary of concepts allows you to expand your own range of thinkable thoughts.
I never (currently) set aside time to go through a friend's timeline and reply to all the tweets I find thought provoking.
Categorical error! Huge Opportunity
Accumulate enough and you'll feel nothing
More likely to occur when you feel powerless and not in touch with your values
Less likely when you have a plan
By another name: Self-coercion/Odysseus' Mast
Breaks when others force ur hand
Because it is friction filled, we only have a handful like @visakanv doing it right
If Amazon/Audible really cared about users getting lasting value from non-fiction books, they'd build a response feature like this, or expose an API so someone else could
Far more people would reach the frontier of human knowledge (and advance it by applying models from other domains) if a map such as this existed
Interesting and plausibly true claims (aka Opinions) about Programming Languages
Way too much noise if I @ mention someone
More fun to do topic level threads that weave together than a single list of hot takes.
When I posted this last year, I hardly used twitter.
Having this goal pushed me far out of my comfort zone on thinking in public, and was a main factor in me getting so active here in the last 12 months.
Or started this Christmas eve thread on some of my weirdest thoughts.
162 on the surface conflicts with 53
but also getting too pissed at yourself / ashamed for not hitting public goals is a great way to shrink yourself as a person.
We must forgive ourselves, and have trust in ourselves even after failures
If I count them up and link them here after Christmas it still counts.
Don't give up on yourself because you fell. Pick yourself back up and go again -- this is how you get strong.
730 is target now.
When I do that you can trust me on this area, and I'll trust myself here again too. And more.
Critical in relationships
Extremely critical for founders/inventors/scientists/creatives
You have to be right when everyone else is wrong.
The world will tell you not to trust yourself, and this can be an extremely heavy emotional weight to carry.
They may be right.
FUCK THEM
It's ok to forgive those assholes. It's really good for you to do. For yourself. For the world.
Don't drink venom to poison them. Hatred and resentment are venom.
Ok to ignore/discount their narratives about you though
U special ❄ U
So can believing that X about yourself implies Y when it doesn't.
Learn about bucket errors, you're making them, they hurt you.
lesswrong.com/posts/EEv9JeuY…