1) "raise concerns." This is done by essentially creating a conspiracy theory.
2) demand that the conspiracy theory be disproved. Not only it this usually impossible, but if tech is involved, demand a "simple" explanation "in plain English."
4) Don't actually stop whining. Ever. Never back down from your whining. Keep whining, because it won you concessions you didn't earn.
Stop falling for this. This is the strategy of crying babies wanting ice cream. Act like parents.