Under-discussed topic
Tom Sowell points to a study where first borns fare better in academics than later children
Also twins have a lower IQ than kids born singly
Sticking together "for the sake of the children" does make sense
Also it is an argument for one spouse focusing more on the kids and the house as opposed to leaving childcare to nannies/daycare
The advocates of genetic determinism downplay nurture altogether
The other side talks up nurture, but not early child care specifically
However its impact may be v v great in the first 4-5 years
Greater parental involvement in the early years
Women taking a break from work etc
Things that we don't want to discuss
Because it has a "reactionary" feel to it