He cannot learn it from any other place
He cannot learn it from other boys
He cannot learn it from women
The plan was this: A father would lay the foundation, pass knowledge and confidence to the boy
Many failed
Understand this when raising your sons
Teach them to be men, teach them what "Man" means
This distance forced many to look for role models outside, someone to model their lives after, sometimes it was the neighbor or the "uncle" next door