Is anyone claiming that Katie Hill abused her position and/or engaged in coercive conduct? If not, there's no reason for the whole world to know about her private sexual affairs. And yes, I'd say the same thing about a man
In general, let consenting adults do as they please and STFU
If you're asking me whether I would say the same thing about a GOP member of Congress having consensual relations with a subordinate, the answer is yes. I know this is shocking, but the consenting adults should have the final say on the matter, rather than moralizing school-marms
It's not the job of outside critics to opine on whether consenting adults are behaving in accord with some vague definition of "power dynamics." In fact, it's increasingly creepy how many people feel free to assign themselves the role of morality police
