So, my 11-year old is now a 12-year old.
For birthdays and Christmas, he doesn’t make a list. Never has. Maybe asks for a specific thing or two but generally leaves it to me.
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For birthdays and Christmas, he doesn’t make a list. Never has. Maybe asks for a specific thing or two but generally leaves it to me.
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It’s a combo of him being remarkably unmaterialistic and knowing I know him well.
Before this bday he asked for some walking-around money to do things with his friends but left the rest up to me.
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Before this bday he asked for some walking-around money to do things with his friends but left the rest up to me.
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I love that.
I let it simmer and marinate. I look around and think. And invariably, something clicks and I’m like “YES. That is it.”
This year there were some clothes and a comical volume of socks.
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I let it simmer and marinate. I look around and think. And invariably, something clicks and I’m like “YES. That is it.”
This year there were some clothes and a comical volume of socks.
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The marquee gift though was a road trip to Philly to a Sixers game.
He’s a suddenly passionate basketball fan. The @sixers are his team.
Last year, his drum/line played halftime for them. He met legendary Sixer, Allen Iverson, in the tunnel.
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He’s a suddenly passionate basketball fan. The @sixers are his team.
Last year, his drum/line played halftime for them. He met legendary Sixer, Allen Iverson, in the tunnel.
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I let him pick any game.
We’ll road trip it down early and hit up Reading Terminal for roast pork at DiNic’s.
Then hit up Jim’s on South Street and split a cheesesteak.
It is going to be a whole thing. A whole day-long thing.
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We’ll road trip it down early and hit up Reading Terminal for roast pork at DiNic’s.
Then hit up Jim’s on South Street and split a cheesesteak.
It is going to be a whole thing. A whole day-long thing.
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For the gift box, I searched and searched for some Sixers merch.
Couldn’t find a single jersey or t-shirt. Five stores. Couldn’t even find a damn hat.
Finally, I stopped at one last place. They had one jersey.
Perfect.
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Couldn’t find a single jersey or t-shirt. Five stores. Couldn’t even find a damn hat.
Finally, I stopped at one last place. They had one jersey.
Perfect.
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He’s excited. I’m excited.
No, I’m more than excited.
I am shining like a new dime.
Childhood memories are like strings of Christmas lights.
Stretches of time un-illuminated interrupted by pops of bright colors. Bright moments. Things remembered in sharpness and color.
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No, I’m more than excited.
I am shining like a new dime.
Childhood memories are like strings of Christmas lights.
Stretches of time un-illuminated interrupted by pops of bright colors. Bright moments. Things remembered in sharpness and color.
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It is just a basketball game.
But is also a long drive in the car where he’ll play DJ all the way down.
And it’s also a detour for epic sandwiches we’ll talk about long after.
And it’s our first time at an NBA game together.
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But is also a long drive in the car where he’ll play DJ all the way down.
And it’s also a detour for epic sandwiches we’ll talk about long after.
And it’s our first time at an NBA game together.
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Above all though... it’ll be a bright light on his string.
It’ll be a day that I know he’ll remember long past this year and long past this season.
We will make it so - and so it will be.
I am so damn excited. So. Damn. Excited.
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It’ll be a day that I know he’ll remember long past this year and long past this season.
We will make it so - and so it will be.
I am so damn excited. So. Damn. Excited.
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